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Episodes
Are Dating Apps Designed To Be Addictive?
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A class action lawsuit has been filed in the US which claims dating apps are created to make people addicted and keep using them. Dee chats to Clini...
Can You Be Friends With Someone You’re Attracted To?
11 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If someone has a crush on their friend, is the friendship actually platonic? Or does it completely change the dynamic? In this ep, we debate attract...
Angela White On Deep Throating, Crying After Sex And Feminism In Porn
07 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We catch up with the world’s biggest porn stars Angela White and she answers your questions about the adult industry, how to give good head, femini...
The Psychology Behind Paypigs And Findom
05 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In our last ep we met some findoms, and a paypig, but what actually makes someone get off on giving money and gifts for no sexual favours in return? ...
The World Of Paypigs And Findom
05 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A paypig is someone who gets off on giving you gifts, cash, paying your bills - but they don’t want any physical sexual favours in return. Sounds t...
Louis Hanson on Mardis Gras, Coming Out & GayTMs
29 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We live, laugh, love comedian, presenter, and writer Louis Hanson.As your 2024 Mardi Gras host - he’s got your pride survival guide for your gay ch...
How To Deal If You're Attracted To Red Flags
28 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
You told us about how you've self sabotaged your way out of healthy, secure relationships with green flags - but how can you stop this pattern from r...
When Dating Green Flags Freak You Out
27 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you've been in a toxic relationship or you only date red flags, do you find it hard when someone healthy, secure and safe comes along? You tell us...
Hannah Ferguson On Why You Should Group Date
21 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
She’s the founder and CEO of Cheek Media, author of Bite Back, and podcast host of Big Small Talk - Hannah Ferguson put the ultimate group date to ...
The Struggle Of Having Sex When You Live With Your Parents
20 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re living with your parents (maybe you’re studying, or for cultural reasons, or just coz cost of living is fkd) you might be struggling to...
How To Navigate Shitty Timing
15 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We yappa yappered about timing, but now it’s time to hear from an actual expert.Dee chats to couples therapist Megan Kozak about how much timing ac...
Does Timing Matter In Relationships?
13 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever met someone who ticks all the boxes, you have great chemistry, you could honestly see a future with them… but the timing isn’t righ...
How To Do Anal (If You've Never Done It Before)
08 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you wanna start using your backdoor in the bedroom but don't know where to start, we got chu. Sex coach Georgia Grace and founder of sexual wellne...
Are We Living In A Low Effort Dating Era?
06 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
83% of you reckon we live in a low effort dating culture. Where people never put in effort and everyone just bails or ghosts each other. So are Aust...
The Imperfects On Learning How To Be Vulnerable
29 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s finally happened, The Imperfects are on The Hook Up <3 If you don’t know - The Imperfects are a hugely popular podcast where some of the...
More Kinky History With Esme Louise James
22 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
She’s one of our favourite brains in the whole wide world - historian, writer and TikTokker Esme Louise James is back with some more kinky history ...
Unpacking Internet Culture and Dating With Vulga Drawings
15 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We chat to author and cartoonist Lily O’Farrell – you might know her as Vulga Drawings on Instagram, and she’s just released a podcast about ho...
Dylan Buckley On Embracing Your Authentic Self
08 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dylan Buckley is an ex AFL player now turned podcaster - who you’d probs know from Dyl & Friends - a podcast where (mainly AFL players) are ope...
Madeleine Stewart: Talking Dating With A Disability
01 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know if you’re on the disability support pension it might stop you from taking your relationship to the next level? Award winning writer, s...
Your Most Cooked Sunday Secrets
25 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Every Sunday on our insta @triplejthehookup we get your raunchiest secrets, honestly they leave us gooped, gagged and gazumped. In this special ep -...
All The Cooked Things From 2023
18 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s been a hell of a year. From Jonah Hill's therapy speak, the orchestra orgasm, and Sam Levinson's controversial show The Idol and Anna Paul's b...
How To Open Up And Embrace Vulnerability
12 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A lot of guys still associate vulnerability with weakness. But you told us that it’s messing with your mental health and your relationships - as yo...
A Chat With Dr Zac Seidler On Masculinity
07 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dee chat's to clinical psychologist and men's mental health expert Dr Zac Seidler about the spotlight on masculinity at the moment, why so many young...
We Need To Talk About Masculinity
05 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A lot of guys have told us they’re feeling super confused atm about how to act and what it means to be ‘a man’.
How To Open Up Your Relationship
28 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Keen to get with other people but have no idea how to ask your partner? Going from monogamous to ethical non-monogamous sounds hot and exciting, but...
Why Do We F*ck People We Hate
21 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We’re so obsessed with the enemies to lovers trope in movies, books and tv - but can it happen irl? Turns out yes, and the most common way to catc...
I Love Feet... Do I Have A Foot Fetish?
14 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
ICYMI, you don’t have to have a foot fetish to be into feet.
What It’s Like To Date With ADHD
07 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Loads of people are getting later in life diagnoses of ADHD which has helped a lot you figure out the way you work – but what about the way you dat...
Autosexuality: When You’re Sexually Attracted To Yourself
31 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine if you could have sex with yourself. That’s the dream for people who’re autosexual. We delve deep into the sexuality we had no idea even...
TF Is A Coregasm And How Do I Have One?
24 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Exercise might give you endorphins but it also might give you an orgasm. It’s actually more common than you think. We get your coregasm stories an...
When Your Body Image Is Ruining Your Sex Life
17 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Most of you told us you’ve felt insecure about your body during sex, so how do you stop that negative self-talk and learn to accept yourself just t...
A Chat With Madison Griffiths on Abortion
12 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this bonus episode, writer, artist and producer Madison Griffiths chat to Dee about her new book Tissue.Tissue is Madi's raw and vulnerable refle...
How To Deal If You Keep Getting UTIs
10 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Getting a urinary tract infection can be one of the most painful experiences, and if you're getting them all the time, they can cause a lot of anxiet...
Can Anxious-Avoidant Relationships Ever Work?
03 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Everyone’s obsessed with attachment theory atm! But even if you don’t subscribe - it’s a pretty common relationship dynamic where someone can ...
What You Need To Know About Consent With Chanel Contos
26 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
She’s the activist who helped make consent education mandatory in the Australian curriculum and now Chanel Contos has written her first book Consen...
BONUS: Getting To Know Girthmasterr
21 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
From posting dick pics on tumblr to now sitting in top 0.1% on OnlyFans, we get to know one of Australia’s biggest adult content creators - Girthma...
How To Find The G-Spot, A-Spot, C-Spot & P-Spot
19 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve probs heard of the G spot, maybe the P spot - but what about the A and C spot? We chat to Georgia Grace (aka @g.spot) and learn about the er...
Sex And Dating In A Wheelchair
13 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There’s so much misconception around people who use a wheelchair - one being that they’re not interested in or capable of sex and intimacy. But t...
Why So Many Of Us Fake Orgasms
05 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Nearly 70% of you told us you’ve faked an orgasm before! So why are we all out here pretending we’re having a good time?We chat to sexologist Lau...
BONUS: Spilling Secrets w/ Swag On The Beat
31 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Comedy content kings Swag On The Beat aka Jack, Isaac and Sam joined us in the studio to spill some secrets and share their cooked dating stories.
Struggling To Sleep Next To Your Partner?
29 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Attention chronic snorers, blanket hoggers, alarm snoozists – this ep is for you, because sleeping in bed with a partner can be a real struggle for...
BONUS: Dr Karl and Dr Theresa Answer Your Sex Questions
24 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the science behind libido? Why do I get migraines after orgasming? Does pineapple juice really change the taste of your cum? Is skipping you...
How To Dump Someone, Respectfully
22 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
ICYMI - TikTok star Anna Paul and her boyfriend Glen broke up :’( She said “it’s the most healthy breakup you could imagine,” so in this ep ...
How To Spot Emotional Cheating In Your Relationship
15 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What do you reckon emotional cheating is? And do you think it’s worse than physical cheating? In this episode, we get your hot takes, and chat to ...
Ball Play 101
08 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you leaving the balls out of the bedroom routine? A lot of us simply don’t know how to handle them, so these pleasure plums end up just chillin...
AMA With Sexologist Lauren French Part Two
01 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We get some of the best questions from you in our dms so we thought it’s about time we did an ‘ask us anything’ episode!Sexologist Lauren Frenc...
AMA With Sexologist Lauren French Part One
25 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We get some of the best questions from you in our dms so we thought it’s about time we did an ‘ask us anything’ episode!Sexologist Lauren Frenc...
BONUS: Getting Therapy With Therapy Gecko
19 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Lie back on your leather couch coz it’s time to get therapised with one of the best in the biz. In this bonus ep, Therapy Gecko chats about his th...
Why Some Guys Are Scared To Make The First Move
18 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dudes - do you get nervous to shoot your shot, because you don’t want to come across as creepy?
Love Me Hate Me But You Still Date Me
11 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you dated someone where you love each other so hard, but at the flip of a switch, you hate them? We investigate the rollercoaster of love-hate r...
BONUS: Pomara Fifth on Indigenous Culture In Drag
06 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you don’t know Pomara Fifth, hit play on this episode and get to know her. She’s part of the deadly new generation of indigenous drag queens i...
Nipple Play: How To Have A Nipple Orgasm
04 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know nipple orgasms are a thing? 👀 We didn’t, so we asked you about it and you told us nipple play is a huge part of your routine - so w...
Should You Tell Your Friend Their Partner’s Kinda Shit?
27 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all been there, when your mate is dating someone you just don’t vibe with. But is it ever your place to say something? We hear your hot ta...
BONUS: Linda Marigliano on People Pleasing in Relationships
22 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
“On my thirtieth birthday I got engaged. Six months later I was single for the first time in almost ten years.” Presenter and podcaster Linda Ma...
The Slay And Flop Era of Your Menstrual Cycle Explained
20 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you have a regular period cycle - ever wondered why you hate everyone a few days before you get your period? But some days you’re in a full on s...
BONUS: Dr Yves Rees On Their Journey Transitioning
15 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dr Yves Rees is a trans non-binary writer, podcaster and historian who recently wrote a book about their experience transitioning - called All About ...
What You Need To Know About Transitioning Gender
13 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you think you might be trans, or if you’re starting to transition, what are the first steps to take on this journey?In this ep we get advice on ...
Is It Ok To Trauma Dump On The First Date?
06 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
On a first date, if someone overshared about past trauma would you be put off by that? Or find that kind of vulnerability refreshing? We hear your ho...
To Trust Or Not To Trust From Date #1
30 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In dating, should you trust people from the start? Or should trust be earned over time?We get full philosophical in this ep, hear your hot takes and ...
BONUS: All Things Drag With Monét X Change
25 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We chat with singer, stand-up comedian, and Rupaul’s Drag Race royalty Monét X Change.
When You’re Worried About Being Inexperienced
23 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like you’re inexperienced when it comes to dating, relationships, kissing or sex? If everyone around you is hooking up or falling in love...
How To Talk Dirty (Without Giving Yourself The Ick)
16 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Talking dirty can be SO hot! But if it’s something you’ve never really done before, it can be kinda awkward.In this episode, we get your hot tips...
How To Keep The Honeymoon Phase Alive
09 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When you first start dating someone, you’re infatuated with them - you’ve got the rose-coloured glasses on and everything is just so passionate. ...
What You’re Entitled To In A De Facto Relationship (It’s A Lot)
02 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve lived with a partner for two or more years, you’re actually considered de facto. Which means if you split up…there’s a lot on the t...
BONUS: Your New Rules with Chris Cheers
25 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re being honest with yourself - how’s your life going?Do you feel like you’re just coasting through, or stuck in a bit of rut? Or feelin...
What Is Pocketing? And Is It Happening To Me?
18 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re dating someone and they’re not introducing you to their friends, family or posting about you on socials - they might be ‘pocketing’...
Everything You Need To Know About Soft Cock Play
11 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Did you know you can actually cum from a flaccid penis?!There’s SO much emphasis on hard and erect cocks (hello porn) that not a lot of people play...
How Often Should You Be Messaging In The Talking Stage?
04 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There’s so many unspoken rules and expectations when it comes to messaging someone for the first time.You can find yourself over-analysing texts an...
How To Deal With Insecurity And Jealousy In Relationships
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s completely normal to feel jealous but sometimes it can make you act out in ways that can be damaging to your relationship. Maybe you go throu...
BONUS: Rainbow History Class With Hannah McElhinney
21 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever heard of the Ancient roman trans icon Elagabalus who set tigers on her dinner party guests? Or what about the San Diego lesbians banding togethe...
How To Actually Nail Foreplay
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The great Esther Perel once said “foreplay begins after your last orgasm”. So if it’s something you do for a couple of minutes before sex - ta...
QUEER LOVE BITES: An Asexual Love Story
08 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
To celebrate WorldPride this month, we’re hearing your queer bite-sized love stories - and now it's time for the big finale.
What's Performance Anxiety? And Why Can It Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
07 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve struggled to get hard or ‘get it up’ it might be because you’re stressed or anxious about being good in bed.And so many of you told...
QUEER LOVE BITES: The Art Collector and The Artist
01 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
To celebrate WorldPride this month, we’re hearing your queer bite-sized love stories. And nothing screams modern gay love like a grindr hook up th...
How To Date And Find Love In A Small Town
28 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Dating in regional or rural Australia can be pretty tough. There’s like five people on the apps, everyone knows everyone’s business and you have ...
QUEER LOVE BITES: Kitchen Encounter
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
To celebrate WorldPride this month, we’re hearing your queer bite-sized love stories.
When Is The Right Time To Move In Together?
21 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Moving in with your partner can make or break a relationship - you might see a bunch of red flags or it might make you closer than ever. We find out...
How To Explore And Embrace Your Bisexuality
14 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You told us that dating as a bisexual person can be a really shit time. You've had people say stuff like "it’s just a phase" or "pick a side."
Can Friends With Benefits Really Work?
07 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Friends with benefits can be a really great way to have no strings attached sex, but it can also get really messy, especially if someone catches feel...
How to survive your first holiday together
13 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
So you’re about to go on your first vacay with bae. Maybe you’re going overseas, road tripping in a van or meeting the their fam for the first ti...