why does it feel like I’m missing out?
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For a while I had a fear of being unlovable that I just, I wouldn't find anybody who found me worthy, not even one person. And I think that a way of tackling that fear and addressing that fear was putting myself out there. I feel as if when you meet somebody who's really meant to be in your life, or they're meant to be your friend, or you go through an experience that is sometimes unsettling, the best thing you can do is address the fear. Every time I have addressed the fear in my life, I have met the coolest people, I have done the coolest things, and also I have come out the other end with so many experiences that were just like bizarre and life-changing. For me, like a big thing that I guess I have like a fear of is not doing enough in my life. Like I really, really, really want to live a good life. And I mean... I really don't know what that is.
I used to think when I was younger, that meant that I needed a lot of money, that money meant a good life. And sure. I think that having resources is important, right? Like you need a place to live. You need a place to sleep. You need good Chili's meals to eat for 60. Okay. Let's hold off on that. I don't want to get too worked up already, but that fear, of not accomplishing enough while I'm still around on this planet, and that fear of not being able to meet people that I feel as if are going to bring experiences and moments into my life that will teach me so many new things, I feel like that has been a driving force in my motivation. in my motivation to get up every morning, in my motivation to put myself out there in front of people and see what happens, fear is one of the best feelings that if we lean into it can bring us some of the most incredible, incredible things. It can bring us stability. It can bring us accomplishments. It can bring us this feeling of content. If we address the fear in our life, we almost...
dumb it down a little bit we almost make it palatable sometimes like the fear is is not readily accessible it's gatekept it's like a uh a bonus level in a video game you have to get the dlc for it and oftentimes we might feel as if oh i think i know what my fear is but you don't really know it Until you kind of have a conversation with yourself and try to pinpoint it. For a while, I had a fear of being unlovable. That I just... I wouldn't find anybody who found me worthy. Not even one person. And I think that a way of tackling that fear and addressing that fear was putting myself out there. What does that mean? What does it mean to put yourself out there? I think it means... championing your personality, your quirks, your weirdness, your awkwardness, your tendencies to not feel social, your tendencies to want alone time, your tendencies to want to fit in and knowing that that's not, that's not why somebody is going to accept you. They're probably going to accept you for the person that you are. And I think that was a big realization for me.
Like I am running away from the person that I am and I'm trying to craft a skin of a person that I'm just not, I'm just like not that person. And that was another fear. Oh, my goodness, right? Like, you would think that that would solve the problem. Okay, you feel unlovable. Change yourself. Get swole. Get alpha. And then you're going to have the baddies in Dubai. Oh, you're good. Go ahead. It kind of just, like, stops you in place. You're like, okay, that's what's going to address the problem.
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