Leaving our baby for the first time (+ gaslighting & “kid-friendly” shows to avoid)
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How did we come up with Tate’s name?
Yes.
I got a great DM.
What is it?
What happened during the power outage in Spain and Portugal?
It said, like on the topic of what we were talking about last week, on being indecisive with restaurants.
Mm-hmm.
I said, what I should do is I should say, I'm taking you to one of your favorite restaurants. Can you guess where we're going? And then you'll tell me where you want to go because whatever pops into your head will be your first choice.
That is such a good idea.
Yeah. We need a word for like good gaslighting. That's good gaslighting.
That's not even gaslighting. That's just like trickster.
Trickster. Maybe I don't even know what gaslighting means.
You use it freely. Do you know where the term gaslighting came from?
Oh, no, please educate me. Considering I can't even ever get it right.
What was it like leaving Tate overnight for the first time?
It was a guy back in the day and he had a gas lantern and he would turn it brighter and less bright. And his wife would always be like, is that less bright? And he'd be like, no, it's the same. But he was gaslighting her. He was turning it up and down.
Oh, my God. Yeah. So I gaslight you. I actually gaslight you. With the temperature of our bed.
Really?
Yeah.
How do you, what do you do?
How did Harrison feel spending a weekend with Tate?
When you tell me you're like, turn it up, turn it down. I say done. And you're like, oh, perfect. So I actually gaslight you.
You're not actually adjusting the temperature?
No.
Why? I'm making it too cold.
Because it's on auto adjustment. It auto syncs to our sleep.
It auto regulates depending on your body. Okay. Einstein, I sleep on a heating pad. So it's jaded. Is the internet going to get mad at me for that? No. Okay. I hope not. All right. Let's start. Are we rolling? Yeah. Okay. Welcome back to two parents and a podcast. Why are you checking your phone?
You've been, you've been looking at the agenda.
Okay. He's been a little phone happy today. Don't you think? well little stress levels running a little high why uh you know just going through it oh i added some things last minute here i noticed what you want to talk about how we came up with tate's name yeah i'm so proud of you you podcaster because people ask us that all the time and we never i like always go i always mean to add add it to the agenda and i always forget do you remember how we came up with the name Like there's, if, if, if you were interviewing right now, I would definitely have a story, but is it accurate with the other party sitting here? I don't know. So you tell it.
No, I'd love to hear your story because I don't know if mine is accurate.
I don't have like full conviction in my story. So I'd like to hear you.
So let's hear it.
What was the Mother’s Day surprise?
It's just like, I think I said, I like the name Tate one day. And then you were like, oh yeah, I love it.
So I don't think that's what happened.
Okay.
Where did we go on our first date?
Well, I don't know the name of it.
Okay.
Why are certain kids' shows like 'Cocomelon' considered unhealthy?
I know they had tater tots and it was down.
What did we order for our first meal?
Tater tots.
Valentine's Day, we went back there.
To get the tater tots. They were off the menu.
And they were off the menu. And I think that at that point, we started calling her tater tot in your belly. And I think tate came from tater tot.
Now, listen, that's a cuter story, but I've always loved the name Tate because I went to high school with a girl named Tate. And I liked her smile and I loved her as a person. And I think I said that's in the running for me and you loved it. And then for Valentine's Day, that solidified it.
So is my story a gaslight?
No, no, no, it's not. It's not a gaslight. That's not the right. No, because you think your story, you're not telling me the story to like.
Okay.
Yeah, it's not a gaslight.
I thought there was like, but maybe that was coincidence and so I'm turning it into a story. I don't know.
It was definitely something we talked about. You gave me, do you remember what you gave me for Valentine's Day?
Oh my God, I do remember.
We took a photo on an iPhone in a dark restaurant of the Tater Tots and Harrison framed it in like a big...
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
How did we come up with Tate’s name?
0:12–0:16
2
What happened during the power outage in Spain and Portugal?
0:16–0:53
3
What was it like leaving Tate overnight for the first time?
0:53–1:18
4
How did Harrison feel spending a weekend with Tate?
1:18–2:39
5
What was the Mother’s Day surprise?
2:39–2:53
6
Why are certain kids' shows like 'Cocomelon' considered unhealthy?
2:53–8:54
7
What emotional changes did motherhood bring?
8:54–10:11
8
How did the house closing impact us?
10:11–58:03
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