Cam Fraser
speaker
418 appearances
8 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2021
last heard Aug 2022
Cam Fraser’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So owning your height as well and definitely not lying about it on dating apps, you know, starting off a relationship or a communication with this person off a lie, I suppose, is not going to be really beneficial either.
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So yeah, owning, owning yourself as well, owning your owning your height is really helpful.
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This is an ABC podcast.
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there's a lot of shooting when it comes to sex.
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It should involve penetration or it should involve an ejaculation or it should involve the genitals in particular.
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And so if we can get past like what it, what the particulars are, what the performance kind of markers are of how long it lasts and how many orgasms there were and move towards like, was it just a pleasurable experience?
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Did we both or did everyone involved enjoy themselves?
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Then that's more of a barometer for whether the sex was good or not.
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there's a lot of insecurities and anxieties around sex.
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And I think this is probably like affirming that these numbers and particularly when it comes to kind of anonymous surveys as well.
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If someone asks us point blank face to face, we might tend to, and this is especially true for the men that I work with, kind of talk about how good they are and kind of put on that kind of facade and that macho-ness.
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But when it comes to an anonymized survey, then there's a bit more tendency to be a bit more truthful about how you actually feel about your sexual prowess.
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Yeah, again, I also think this is like to do with there's a lot of insecurities and there's a lot of anxieties that a lot of guys mask when they come to talking about sex.
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They'll kind of talk themselves up and pretend that they're, you know, God's gift to whoever they're attracted to, I suppose.
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And then when it comes to actually diving deeper into how they really feel about their sexual performance or sexuality, that there's a bit more anxiety and insecurity there.
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So I think that's probably what is going on, at least in part.
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Yeah, totally.
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There's a lot of performance-oriented mentality when it comes to sex.
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And especially I work with these guys, they have this mentality that you've got to be a productive member of society.
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You've got to be achieving goals and producing something and always moving forward and be goal-oriented.
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