Chantelle Otten
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881 appearances
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first heard Jul 2018
last heard Sep 2021
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Yeah, I also think not putting a label on it is where we kind of might end up in a little bit of trouble and people's feelings getting hurt.
Like Clint was saying before, not putting a label on it gives you time to develop deeper feelings, whereas maybe that's not exactly what you want if you're casually dating.
Maybe it's about having those boundaries of where your feelings are meant to be or where you want them to be.
So actually, that's probably why it's best to really check in with yourself and go, why don't I want to put a label on it?
What does that mean for me?
What is going on within my body that means that I'm not comfortable with being in any kind of labeled situation, if that makes sense?
Because then it's not really fair to the other person if you're just going, oh, you know, it's all good.
It's casual and they're...
you know, sitting there going, well, we haven't had a chat about it, so maybe it's leading somewhere.
wasn't.
you know what i don't think that you that was anything to do with you i think you need to um recognize that that was something that he um i guess projected onto you um and it sounds like you were quite clear when you were having the conversation about moving forward and being in a relationship that that's what you wanted um i don't know if you necessarily talked about being
know seeing other people or not but he changed his mind and that's absolutely not your fault whatsoever and that's also not how a lot of casual relationships end either you know it can it can end up being that the other person's quite decent and sticks to what they say
It just doesn't actually just for me, it just doesn't sound like he was being very honest with you.
no strings attached girlfriends yeah
Yeah.
I think when people are having that conversation about moving from casual to a little bit more serious and they need to really think about, am I going to be with this person and I'm going to be doing very committed things with this person in a year's time, in two years' time, five years, wherever.
they want it to be.
And if they don't see, I guess, those activities having, then maybe they need to be a bit honest with themselves and go, is it fair for me to continue on when this is becoming not casual anymore?
You know what, when it comes to actual physical appearance, is there anything wrong with having a type in terms of physical appearance?
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