Grace Beverley

I do.

I mean, I fundamentally stand by that.

I want to go back to kind of your 20s and like the start of you realizing these labels at school.

How do you feel like those labels changed?

started to kind of carry over into your twenties?

Yeah, no, that makes total sense.

And do you feel like that was a change that happened more in your 30s or did it start to happen in your 20s?

I'm still going to have a nice time.

Like I'm still going to live my life.

My life is still worth living when I'm not.

So it's a lie.

So many of our timelines are these arbitrary, imaginary kind of ideas that we have in our heads, when in reality...

So much can happen for you in a few short years as long as you are aligned with the type of life that you want to be living or you're actually working towards the things that you say you want to work towards or whatever it might be.

This paralysis of the approach of 30 or whatever milestone it might be that you feel terrified about actually just holds you back so much from doing the things that you should be doing and should be enjoying.

And I just think that...

the more we can move away from these arbitrary timelines.

I feel like we're making it so much harder for ourselves.

And we've inherited these timelines.

We haven't given them to ourselves.

We haven't decided that's right for our life.