Better Sex

374: [Soapbox] How there is hope even when they close the door

20 Mar 2026

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In a soapbox episode, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman responds to an email from a listener whose wife says she isn’t interested in fixing their sex li...

373: Hormonal Optimization, Metabolic Health, and Longevity for Better Sex with Jay Campbell

16 Mar 2026

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Sex therapist Jess Zimmerman interviews biohacker and author Jay Campbell about hormone optimization and metabolic health as foundations for wellbeing...

372: [Soapbox] The three biggest apology mistakes

12 Mar 2026

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Sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman shares a soapbox episode on three common apology mistakes that prevent real relationship repair. First, apologizing too ...

371: People pleasing is ruining your sex life with Darshana Avila

09 Mar 2026

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Sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman interviews Darshana Avila (featured on Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop) about “erotic wholeness,” defined as integr...

370: [Soapbox] Choose a more empowering story

05 Mar 2026

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In this soapbox episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the power of staying positive by questioning the stories an...

369: Protecting Sexual Freedoms with Mandy Salley

02 Mar 2026

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Sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman interviews Mandy Salley of the Woodhull Foundation about sexual freedom as a human right rooted in bodily autonomy and t...

368 [Soapbox] The transformative potential of a couples' intensive

26 Feb 2026

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In this soapbox episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman explains why some couples may benefit from a couples intensive instea...

367: Supple, Luscious, Fuller Breasts with Jillian Wisborg

23 Feb 2026

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Jessa Zimmerman interviews Jillian Wisborg, founder of Booby Grow, about a natural breast growth and firming program combining herbal supplementation,...

366: [Soapbox] Should i tell her about the viagra?

19 Feb 2026

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In this soapbox episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman responds to a coaching-call question: whether to tell a partner when ...

365: Polyagony - Common Mistakes in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Candace Sjogren

16 Feb 2026

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with Candace Sjogren about the intricacies and common mistakes involved in poly...

364: [Soapbox] Avoid the Quota Trap

12 Feb 2026

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the challenges of setting quotas for sexual frequency in r...

363: Anal Sex for Beginners with Dr. Evan Goldstein

09 Feb 2026

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In this episode of Better Sex, host and sex therapist, Jessa Zimmerman, interviews Dr. Evan Goldstein, an expert in anal sexual wellness and author of...

362: [Soapbox] What “My Love Language Is Touch” Gets Wrong

05 Feb 2026

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the focus is on the concept of love languages and their impact on ...

361: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved with Joan Price

02 Feb 2026

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, guest Joan Price discusses her book 'Sex After Grief.' Joan shares...

360: [Soapbox] They put effort into every other problem

29 Jan 2026

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman explores the common misunderstanding surrounding lower desire partners in rel...

359: [Personal Story] Working through vaginismus with a surrogate partner

26 Jan 2026

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes Junvi Ola, who shares her personal story of overcoming vaginismus, a conditio...

358: [Soapbox] We should be talking about sex

22 Jan 2026

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In this soapbox episode of 'The Better Sex Podcast,' sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman emphasizes the importance of talking about sex more openly. Jessa e...

357: Brain Health and Trauma with Dr. Hector Rodriguez

19 Jan 2026

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman is joined by psychiatrist Dr. Hector Rodriguez to discuss the effects of trauma on sex...

356: [Soapbox] The problem with trying to fix your partner's desire

15 Jan 2026

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses the common issue of differences in sexual desire among couples. She emphasiz...

355: Truly Connecting In This Digital Age with Dr. Jacquie Del Rosario

12 Jan 2026

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Dr. Jacquie Del Rosario about the invasive impact of technology on relation...

354: The Strategic Keys To Peak Sexual Performance with Mitch Hartwell

05 Jan 2026

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, legendary adult film actor Mitch Hartwell shares his unique insigh...

353: [Soapbox] We don't have to decide right now

01 Jan 2026

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In this episode of Better Sex, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses a practical strategy for improving communication and collaboration in ...

352: Act pregnant now to get pregnant later with Gabriela Rosa

29 Dec 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jess Zimmerman, a sex therapist, speaks with Gabriela Rosa about overcoming difficult fertility challenges. Rosa s...

351: [Soapbox] Don't apologize too fast

25 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of not apologizing too quickly in intimate rel...

350: Coming out later in life with Emily Rich

22 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Emily Rich, who shares her personal journey of questioning her sexuality ...

349: [Soapbox] The problem with sensate focus

18 Dec 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman critiques the traditional sensate focus technique frequently recommended in sex therapy. ...

348: Dealing With Rapid Ejaculation with Andre Lazarus

15 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman is joined by sexual wellness coach Andre Lazarus to discuss rapid ejaculation...

347: [Soapbox] Are we even watching the same thing?

11 Dec 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman addresses a fascinating question from a coaching call about whether couples r...

346: Connection and Intimacy after Addiction and Trauma with Vanessa Carlisle

08 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman engages in a meaningful conversation with Vanessa Carlisle about reclaiming intimacy a...

345: Loving the partner we have with Dr. Corey Allan

01 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes guest Cory Allen to discuss the concept of learning to love the spouse you ha...

344: [Soapbox] What if I have zero desire for sex?

27 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the focus is on helping partners with low or zero libido. Jessa di...

343: Sex after Prostate Cancer Treatment with Dr. Jennifer Valli

24 Nov 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman talks with Dr. Jennifer Valli about the impact of prostate cancer an...

342: [Soapbox] The magic key of empathizing with the lower desire partner

20 Nov 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist and host Jessa Zimmerman explores the critical importance of focusing on the lower desire par...

341: Liberating the full orgasm reflex with Rob Kancler

17 Nov 2025

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Welcome back to the Better Sex Podcast! In this powerful episode, host Jessa Zimmerman reunites with returning guest Rob Kancler for an in-depth conve...

340: [Soapbox] Menopause is a destination.mp3

13 Nov 2025

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In this soapbox episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman addresses the common misconception that menopause is a temporary phase. She ex...

339: Sexual Emergence - Surprising Twists in our understanding of ourselves with Jess Levith

10 Nov 2025

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Jessa Zimmerman, host of Better Sex, welcomes back Jess Levith to discuss 'sexual emergence' – the fluid nature of sexuality and its changes over ti...

338: [Soapbox] The problem with "you're not meeting my needs"

06 Nov 2025

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n this episode of The Betters Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the focus is on exploring the implications of framing sexual desir...

337: From infidelity to full f&ck yes with Britton and Carolee Beckham

03 Nov 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, guests Britton and Carolee share their transformative journey from...

336: [Soapbox] What makes a healthy sexual relationship

30 Oct 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman explores what it means to have a healthy sexual relationship. She introduces ...

335: Rewriting sexual scripts with Lauren Elise Rogers

27 Oct 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Lauren Elise Rogers, a certified holistic sexuality educator and intimacy c...

334: [Soapbox] What do you do about the lack of sex in your relationship

23 Oct 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, listeners are guided through the complexities behind the lack of sexual intima...

333: Writing about sex to explore your sexuality with Tash Doherty

20 Oct 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes author Tash Doherty to discuss her work on a spicy coming-of-age novel and a ...

332: [Soapbox] Why do women fake orgasm

16 Oct 2025

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Why do women fake orgasm — and what does it really mean for the relationship? In this video, we dive deep into the real reasons women pretend to cli...

331: Should you take HRT? with Dr. Sarah Daccarett

13 Oct 2025

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Should You Take HRT? | Hormone Replacement, Menopause & Perimenopause ExplainedAre you navigating perimenopause or menopause and wondering, “sho...

330: [Soapbox] Can a sexless marriage be happy?

09 Oct 2025

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Can a Sexless Marriage Be Happy? | Understanding Low Desire, Intimacy, and Relationship SatisfactionCan a marriage without sex still be a happy one? I...

329: Sex Attractant Pheromones with Dr. Winnifred Cutler

06 Oct 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes Dr. Winnifred Cutler to discuss her extensive research on pheromones and thei...

328: [Soapbox] Change takes practice

02 Oct 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the crucial role of experiential practice in improving int...

327: The role of sex toys in women's sexual trauma recovery with Dr. Holly Wood

29 Sep 2025

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326: [Soapbox] How to bring up going to sex therapy

25 Sep 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman addresses the challenging topic of how to approach your partner abou...

325: Exploring Human Sexual Potential with Rob Kancler

22 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Rob Kancler to discuss the potential for human sexual exper...

324: [Soapbox] Think of sex like tapas

18 Sep 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the importance of moving away from a goal-oriented, all-or...

323: Gay Relationships and Intimacy with Tom Bruett

15 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host, and sex therapist, Jessa Zimmerman, talks to therapist Tom Bruett about the unique aspects and challe...

322: [Soapbox] The importance of celebrating 'no'

11 Sep 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the importance of being able to say 'no' in intimate rel...

321: Sexual pain in people with penises with Dr. Susie Gronski

08 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the 'Better Sex' podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman talks with Dr. Susie Gronski about the role of pelvic floor physical therapy for men...

320: [Soapbox] Is there hope for my sex life?

04 Sep 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman tackles one of the most common and vulnerable questions: “Is there hope for my...

319: Sex after childbirth with Stephanie Konter-O'hara

01 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the guest is Stephanie Konter-O'Hara, a therapist and mother of a ...

318: [Soapbox] Are you more attached to your partner's orgasm than they are?

28 Aug 2025

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In this episode of 'Better Sex,' host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the common issue of being overly focused on pleasing one's partner i...

317: Sex Therapy in the Digital Age with Vanessa Cushing

25 Aug 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with ASSECT certified sex therapist Vanessa Cushing about her new innovative pr...

316: [Soapbox] How healthy is your sex life?

21 Aug 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman explores what it truly means to have a healthy sex life. She challen...

315: Stories of Compassionate Sex Work with Remi Newman and Lilith Foxx

18 Aug 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jess Zimmerman speaks with Lilith Foxx and Remi Newman about their new anthology, 'Hands-On.' The book...

314: [Soapbox] What's under the anger?

15 Aug 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman dives into the concept of anger as a secondary emotion. She discusses how anger often mas...

313: Psychedelic Pleasure Liberation with Dr. Nicole Thompson

11 Aug 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Dr. Nicole Thompson about her journey from purity culture to sexual liberation, focusin...

312: [Soapbox] Measure sexual desire in the middle

07 Aug 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of proactive versus reactive desire in intimate relatio...

311: Overcoming Negative Sentiment Override with Zach Brittle

04 Aug 2025

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310: [Soapbox] 5 signs you need to focus on your relationship first

31 Jul 2025

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309: Staying married is the hardest part with Bonnie Comfort

28 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman talks with psychologist and couples counselor Bonnie Comfort about her book 'Staying M...

308: [Soapbox} Preset limits are as unhelpful as expectations

24 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist, Jessa Zimmerman, discusses the concept of reactive desire, where individuals may no...

307: Issues that impact women's sexual desire with Dr. Jenn Kennedy

21 Jul 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes Dr. Jenn Kennedy to discuss the specific challenges women face around sexual desire. Dr. ...

306: [Soapbox] Address your emotional connection first

17 Jul 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses the importance of addressing and repairing intimacy and connection in a rela...

305: Body Image in the LGBTQ community with Nick Demos

14 Jul 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with Nick Demos about his new documentary, 'Body Electric,' which delves into b...

304: [Soapbox] Sex not worth having

10 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses a common issue faced by couples: the lower desire partner ...

303: Tackling Gender Gap in Sexual Dysfunction Treatment with Dr. Maria Sophocles

07 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman engages in a comprehensive discussion with Dr. Maria Sophocles, an O...

302: [Soapbox] Desire is not the same as attraction

03 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the often misunderstood distinction between desire and att...

301: Embodied Receiving with Rosalyn Dischiavo

30 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jess Zimmerman engages in a deep conversation with Rosalyn Dischiavo, who runs the Institute for Sexuality Educati...

300: [Soapbox] The power of positivity in improving your sex life

26 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the power of positivity and its impact on sexual relatio...

299: Men, Infidelity, & Disenfranchised Grief with Dr. Elliott Kronenfeld

23 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman delves into the intricacies of infidelity recovery with Dr. Elliott Kronenfeld. They discuss the c...

298: [Soapbox] You and your partner may start with different goals

19 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses the different challenges faced by partners with differing levels of sexual d...

297: Revitalizing your sex life when you have young kids with Lauren Ditzian

16 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses how parents can maintain a thriving sex life despite the challenges of raising young kid...

296: [Personal Story] Our six year drought is over

12 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman welcomes a former student who shares his personal journey of overcom...

295: Erectile Dysfunction with Dr. Anne Truong

09 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman and guest Dr. Anne discuss the prevalence of erectile dysfunction (ED), its underlying causes, and...

294: Soapbox - Who is ready to transform their sex life

05 Jun 2025

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Join sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman in this episode of the Better Sex Podcast as she explores how otherwise happy couples can transform their sex lives...

293: Men, Sex, and Vulnerability with Dr. Paul Abramowitz

02 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes back Dr. Paul Abramowitz for a deep dive into vulnerability in men and its im...

292: [Soapbox] Don't believe everything you think

29 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman dives into the concept of questioning our thoughts, which she argues is crucial for en...

291: Misconceptions about HRT with Dr. Kelly Casperson

26 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman chats with urologist and women's sexual health advocate Dr. Kelly Casperson. They delv...

290: [Soapbox] Women Writing Erotica

22 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman delves into the topic of eroticism and the empowering act of writing one's own erotica...

289: Navigating Faith Transition as a Couple with Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Postema

19 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses faith transitions and the impact on intimate relationships wit...

288: Soapbox - Exploring Eroticism

15 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the fun and crucial topic of eroticism. Building on her ...

287: Freedom from Body Shame with Nikita Fernandes

12 May 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses body acceptance, freedom from body shame, and the broader implications on sexual intimac...

286: [Soapbox] Sex is so much more than just a physical release

08 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the significance of sex in intimate relationships. Addressing ...

285: Sexual Empowerment with Ann Russo

05 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Ann Russo, an expert on sexual empowerment. They discuss the concept of sex...

284: [Soapbox} Are you entitled to sex

01 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman addresses the complex question of whether individuals are entitled to sex within their...

283: Peak Pleasure- How to Achieve Flow in the Bedroom with Dr. Emily Jamea

28 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with couples and sex therapist Dr. Emily Jamea about her new book, 'Anatomy of ...

282: [Soapbox] The plight of the lower desire partner

24 Apr 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the challenges faced by the lower desire partner in a rela...

281: Permanent Sexual Side Effects from Commonly Prescribed Medications with Dr. Irwin Goldstein

21 Apr 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist, Jessa Zimmerman, engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Irwin Goldstein f...

280: [Soapbox] Using the Giver Receiver Exercise for Growth

17 Apr 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses how to use the giver receiver exercise for personal and relational ...

279: Kink, BDSM, and Mental Health with AJ Cheyfitz

14 Apr 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews AJ Cheyfitz about kink and BDSM, discussing misconceptions, mental health, and trauma-r...

278: [Soapbox] Go to the playground

10 Apr 2025

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In this 'soapbox' episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of transforming sexual encounters into playful, pressure-...

277: Pole dancing and sexual expression with Elle Hamilton Wohl

07 Apr 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman converses with Elle Hamilton Wohl about the multifaceted benefits of pol...

276: [Soapbox] The most powerful exercise for change

03 Apr 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the importance of experiential practice in improving intim...

275: Potential Negatives from Hormonal Birth Control with Mia Neustein

31 Mar 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman delves deep into the topic of hormonal birth control with nurse practitioner Mia Neust...