It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
Episodes
SOLO: The Issues With Modern Dating In Australia... And Beyond
15 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie has got some theories as to why modern dating feels like the pits, and the problems with a lot of single men. It's time to take a stroll through...
OSCAR'S NMF: Elevator Free-Fall
11 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Oscar has a NMF worthy of a Final Destination movie, and Abbie recounts her own elevator tales from her holiday. LINKS Watch Oscar's elevator free-fa...
JACK TOOHEY: How Do We Build A Better World?
08 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Jack Toohey is a content creator and activist know for his videos unpacking topics like housing affordability, masculinity, and climate change. Now he...
NMF: Hotel Hell
04 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Hopefully this chook doesn't have travel trauma from this one... Plus, some bonus travel NMF from Abbie's time in London. LINKS Send your Nightmare F...
SOLO: Cooked Dating Coach Advice
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie's found some incredible resources to teach Amy and Oscar some dating lessons! They react to certified weird unit Gary Gunn, as well as some fres...
BONUS SOLO: The 'March for Australia' and Misinformation
31 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Over the weekend, the so-called 'March for Australia' occured. One of the key aims as stated on its website is to 'end mass immigration', however, the...
NMF: A Frienship-Ending Wedding
28 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Was losing friends over this really worth it?? LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit....
BELLA JOHNSTON PART 2: The Bachelors & Shameless DM Sliding
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode contains discussions of child sexual abuse, eating disorders, and mental ill-health. If this raises any issues for you help is available ...
BELLA JOHNSTON PART 1: Surviving Cancer, Medical Misogyny & Belle Gibson
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode contains discussions of medical trauma, eating disorders, and mental ill-health. If this raises any issues for you help is available 24 h...
NMF: A Stinky Plane & American Tourist Final Boss
21 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
American Tourists Don't Be Loud and Annoying Challenge (IMPOSSIBLE) LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod ...
ICYMI: My Love Story with Adam (AKA The Hard Launch)
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
For all you chookies who've been asking how Adam and Abbie got together, this one's for you! Catch up with this chat from last year and hear how they ...
NMF: Role Play You're In Love With Me (Feat. Lem)
14 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Lem is back for a classic weird dating NMF! LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Listen to Twice Displaced on Spotify and...
LEM ZAKHARIA PART 2: Am I A Refugee?
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode contains discussions of homophobia, and mental health. If this raises any issues for you help is available 24 hours/7 days via Lifeline o...
LEM ZAKHARIA PART 1: Growing up Queer in Jordan
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode contains discussions of homophobia, sexual assault, family violence and mental health. If this raises any issues for you help is availabl...
NMF: “I vomited from kissing him”
07 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This first (and worst) boyfriend story has SO MANY twists and turns, and it's not for the faint of heart... To this chook who didn't know if her story...
SOLO: Sydney Sweeney's American Eagle Ad, AI Apologies & More
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie powered through sickness to deliver you some rants for the ages on recent events! One of the biggest controversies to take over the net lately w...
NMF: The Foul Towel
31 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's gag city in this episode, but not in a good way... If you are the chook in question that this caller is talking about, please get in touch!! LINK...
FELICIA DJAMIRZE: Drug Trafficker, Miss Australia, Justice Advocate
28 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Felicia Djamirze sits down with Abbie to discuss her incredible story, which she has detailed in her memoir Accessory. On paper, Felicia had the ...
NMF: Havoc! At the Hens Party
24 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This chookie had us IN TEARS!!! Drunk aunties, strippers, a cheating scandal, and to top it all off – it's in Brisbane?! What more could we ask ...
SOLO: The Amsterdam Sex Club (And Other Europe Trip Tales)
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie is back from Europe!! She's recounting all the highs and lows from her trip, including the highly-anticipated tale of her and Adam's visit to a ...
SOLO NMF: Crushing on Adam Live on Radio
17 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Thanks to a listener message, Abbie has stumbled upon her very own Nightmare Fuel – crushing HARD on Adam live on national radio over 2 years ag...
SARAH WILSON: Are We All F***ed? Systems Collapse Explained
14 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's estimated that empires collapse roughly every 270 years. So... What now? Best-selling author, podcaster, and climate change advisor, Sarah Wilson...
NMF: The Worst Lie An Ex Could Tell
10 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is this NMF the most sick and twisted ex story we've ever had?? LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on I...
SOLO: The Men’s Rights Reddit Wants Consent Forms??
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie is back on r/MensRights and has unsurprisingly found even more cooked posts. These losers are still out here cherry-picking stats, coming up wit...
NMF: A Trio Of Horror Stories
03 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Amy has prepared three quick NMFs for Abbie, but what they lack in length, they make up for in shock value. These are absolute DOOZIES!!! LINKS Send ...
IONE SKYE: Fame, Absent Fathers, and Age Gaps
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Actress and artist Ione Skye sits down with Abbie to chat about her intimate memoir 'Say Everything'. Ione and Abbie talk about how having an absent f...
NMF: Lovebombed Into A $35k Debt
26 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's a classic deadsh*t boyfriend NMF, complete with red flags, lovebombing, and lies. Then things get even weirder... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel...
SOLO AMA: I've Been Gagging For A Threesome
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Time for another AMA! Topics covered include Abbie's holiday, European sex clubs, why she doesn't worry about cheating in her relationship with Adam, ...
DR VINCENT HURLEY PART 2: Navigating the Family Law System
19 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
NOTE: The advice in this podcast is general, and is not a substitute for professional legal advice. If this content raises any issues, help is availab...
DR VINCENT HURLEY: Domestic Violence Is A Male Problem
16 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
CW: This episode contains discussions of gender-based violence. If this content raises any issues, help is availablie via Lifeline at https://www.life...
NMF: The Second Date From Hell
12 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The first date was full of red flags, the second date is unspeakably bad... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @its...
SOLO: The Risks Of Being A Tradwife
09 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Thanks to TikTok, there is a lot of oversimplification happening of what being a stay-at-home mum is like as well as, on the more extreme side, what b...
NMF: The Undie-Stealing Housemate
05 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A strong argument against communal living... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly...
TRAVIS LOVETT: "We don't live in a safe society as Aboriginal people"
01 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander listeners are warned that this episode contains discussion of a deceased person. Right now in Victoria, a landma...
NMF: A ChatGPT Breakup
29 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You think there's enough to worry about when you're dating a man, and then you hear this NMF... Props to this chook for coming ready with the screensh...
SOLO: The Men's Rights Reddit is COOKED
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie has sacrificed herself to wade into the murky waters of r/MensRights for our amusement, and we don't have to go very deep to find some absolutel...
JAMIE MARINOS' NMF: Not Your Average Tinder Dude
22 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Queen of the fun chooks and MAFS icon Jamie Marinos shares her NMF dating story with a wild twist... LINKS Stream MAFS on 9Now https://www.9now.com.a...
JAMEELA JAMIL PART 2: Discredit Is The New Death
19 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The queen herself is back by popular demand! Jameela and Abbie sit down to chat self-surveillance, tribalism, the messed up world of tabloid journalis...
NMF: Not The New Carpet!
15 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is not a problem Dr. Google can fix... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/...
A Very Special NMF: Lem Is Leaving
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The incredible Lem is saying goodbye to It's A Lot, but we couldn't let her go without a proper send-off – and a few surprises! LINKS Learn mor...
SOLO AMA: What I Wish I Knew About Friendship 10 Years Ago
12 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's time for another AMA! Topics include Abbie's book, Adam's starjump technique, the reality of high school friendships, and what Abbie's noticed ab...
NMF: He Was Going Down On Me And....
08 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The WORST blowjob one can ever get. LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/it...
DR MOHAMMED MUSTAFA: We Need To Humanise Gazans
05 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode contains graphic descriptions of violence, significant trauma, and murdering of children. If any of the topics discussed is triggering fo...
NMF: Wait... Where's the buttplug??
01 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A story guaranteed to make you clench your cheeks... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https:...
ELECTIONS 101: What is Socialism? ft. Purplepingers (AKA Jordan van den Lamb)
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You may have heard the term 'socialism' thrown around before, but what does it actually mean?? Abbie sits down with Jordan van den Lamb who you may kn...
MAFS' Awhina Part 2
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Hear the full story of what happened to Awhina from her side of the story. LINKS Follow Awhina on IG @_awh...
MAFS' Awhina Part 1
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Hear the full story of what happened to Awhina from her side of the story. LINKS Follow Awhina on IG @_awh...
SOLO: Sneaky Lying Ex
24 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This man is prepared to manipulate and manipulate without a shred of empathy. LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @i...
ELECTIONS 101: Liberal Party Cringe
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Chooks, the election is just over a week away, and early voting is open, so we're talking about some tools you can use to make sure your vote is repre...
ELECTIONS 101: What is a Minority Government?
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Listen up class! Next on the list: Minority Government. What is it? How does it come into existence and why do the major parties hate it so much? LIN...
SOLO: I'm Not a Brand, I'm a Person
21 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This man has accused Abbie of being bad at Marketing. Of all things Abbie can be bad at, REALLY? Welcome to a Tuesday Rant... LINKS Check out @itsal...
NMF: The GRUBBIEST Roommate
17 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
First, he's a grub. Then, we discover that he's cheap. THEN he becomes a CREEP... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check ou...
MAFS GOSS: Emergency Episode
17 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We couldn't STOP! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ia...
ELECTIONS 101: Dutton Could Lose His Seat
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We're all wondering what will happen if Goo [Dutton] loses his seat. Would he still be able to become Prime Minister if his party wins? LINKS Check ...
ELECTIONS 101: What's the difference between House of Reps and the Senate?
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Lots of side yapping happening in this one because it's hard not to. Bottomline, Abbie is explaining what the differences are between House of Repres...
ELECTION 101: What is Preferential Voting?
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the first Election 101 episode where Abbie will be answering some election-specific questions for all the non-political chookies and the e...
JAMEELA JAMIL: Patriarchy is Tightening its Grip
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After years of progress on women's rights, how have we regressed back into conservatism? Why is "frail" the new beauty standard? And can we ever find...
NMF: Dickmatised by Porn Fetish Guy
10 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This man has absolutely NO SHAME! Oh well, we all get dickmatised sometimes... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Check out @...
MAFS RECAPS Week 11: Part 2 (FINALE)
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We made it!!! We made it!!! Last you'll hear of MAFS Recaps but keep your eyes/ears peeled for a chat with a MAFS contestant soon... LINKS Check out ...
Do I Agree with Jacqui Lambie?
07 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is Independant Senator Jacqui Lambie on the right side or left side of politics? What's the history of her beef with Clive Palmer? Most importantly, ...
MAFS RECAPS: Week 11 Part 1
07 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's the FINAL week and this is the penultimate episode of MAFS recaps for this season. Enjoy! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/it...
NMF: Gaslighting Yogi
03 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This man came across as spiritual, cool, and into polyamory but the jury's still out on whether he's a sociopath... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to...
MAFS RECAP: Week 10 Part 2 - Final Vows
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The final vows continues as Abbie recaps episodes 38 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram...
MAFS GOSS: A VM from Jacqui (+Clint)
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
While Abbie was weeing, Oscar received a VM from Jacqui (with Clint in the background) and we're playing it back to ya'll T-thirsty MAFS hos out there...
SOLO: The Budget & the Liberal Senator Beef
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Senator Jane Hume took a stab at Abbie and fellow influencers who are backing certain political parties. Abbie has BEEF. Also, the budget. LINK...
MAFS RECAP: Week 10 Part 1 - Final Vows
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie recaps episodes 37 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast ...
MAF GOSS: Final Thoughts (maybe not final) and Advice to Contestants
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Nearing the end of this TV torture now, and so Abbie shares her (not so) final thoughts and gives advice to any contestants of this series of MAFS. LI...
NMF: BO Boy
27 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
He's hot, he's apparently great in bed, but the BO is pungent to the nostrils. How will this listener deal with this stinky man? LINKS Send your Nigh...
MAFS RECAP: Week 9 Part 2
27 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episodes 35 and 36 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https...
MAFS RECAP: Week 9 Part 1
27 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episodes 33 and 34 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https...
MAFS GOSS - Jacqui's 7min Voice Note She Wanted us to Play!!!
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Stop everything... just when you thought the MAFS Goss couldn't get any bigger... Gosscar (aka Oscar) got a 7 minute voice note from MAFS Participant ...
AMA with ADAM on our 1 Year Anniversary
24 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you still want kids? What do you do together? How do you deal with the trolls? How are you navigating a healthy relationship after being traumatis...
MAFS RECAP: Week 8 Part 2
21 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episodes 31 and 32 of Married At First Sight and prays to the Gods of Channel 9 to hurry up and...
BEC CHARLWOOD'S NMF: "My WORST Manic Episode"
20 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Comedian Bec Charlwood tells us about the time she had her WORST manic episode EVER! LINKS Subscribe to Bec's Youtube Channel https://bit.ly/41XmAhB ...
MAFS RECAP: Week 8 Part 1
20 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Part 2 will be released on Friday. Abbie recaps episodes 29 and 30 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check o...
MAFS GOSS: C**ty Clint Spills on Production, Jacqui and a message from Ryan
20 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Along with a rebrand from Perez Gordon to 'Gosscar', this week Oscar (sorry, Gosscar) brings out the big guns and surprises Abbie with a particularly ...
SOLO: 3 Lies & A Parody
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The Bathroom Lie The Greens Party Lie The Adam Lie and the Abbie Chatfield parody. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-inst...
ADAM BANDT'S NMF: Texting on a Nokia
13 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Back in time when the now leader of The Australian Greens Party, Adam Bandt, was a lawyer and Nokia phones were a thing. CLAPS to politicians giving u...
MAFS RECAP: Week 7 Part 2
13 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. It's week 7 and Abbie recaps episode 27 and 28 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG...
MAFS RECAP: Week 7 Part 1
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 25 and 26 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit....
MAFS Goss Update
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Oscar's inbox has been exploding with your goss, so strap yourself in. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . R...
ADAM BANDT (Leader of the Australian Greens): The Extended Version
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What would The Australian Greens do if they had all the political power? What are their policies? Is voting Greens a wasted vote? What is their stance...
ADAM BANDT (Leader of the Australian Greens): The Shorter Version
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What would The Australian Greens do if they had all the political power? What are their policies? Is voting Greens a wasted vote? What is their stance...
RUBY JADE'S NMF: A Stripper's Night Out
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When Ruby went out with a bunch of her stripper friends, they came across a homophobic, racist, and anti-sex worker guy who was full of contradictions...
MAFS RECAP: Week 6 Part 2
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 23 and 24 of Married At First Sight. A bit less on the trauma and bit more of the 'Real House...
MAFS RECAP: Week 6 Part 1
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 21 and 22 of Married At First Sight. Guys. It's getting disturbing now and we're only at the ...
MAFS Goss Update with Perez Gordon's Intel
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Hot on the trail of the latest goss, Perez has bought the goods this week - including an epic shake up for the contestants in coming weeks.  ...
RUBY JADE: The Professional Girlfriend
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We wanted Ruby Jade to TELL US: What is it like being a hired professional girlfriend getting paid hundreds of dollars without having to have sex? Wha...
SOLO NMF: "The Pig Comes Waltzing In..."
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's this girl's first time where she has penetrative sex and she feels like she's "eating shit". Is she eating literal shit? Well... you'll have to f...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 5: Part 2
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 19 and 20 of Married At First Sight. A hole in the wall proves Abbie's vibes were on point. L...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 5: Part 1
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 17 and 18 of Married At First Sight. Who is the off brand Pringle crumb? Better listen to fin...
MAFS Goss: Adrian and Jasmine in Bali...
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie responds to Adrian's "takedown" and it's HILARIOUS. Perez has accumulated ALL the goss in his DMs. Is it true what he said about Adrian and Jasm...
SOLO: Domestic Labour, Weaponised Incompetence, and Splitting Finances
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The day has come and Adam has finally moved in! Will there be a joint bank account? How will they be sharing household chores? And why is it that they...
PRIME MINISTER ALBANESE: The Shorter Version
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is the difference between Labor and Liberals? Why is Albo perceived as "the weak one" and Dutton as "the strong one"? What has Labor done on clim...
PRIME MINISTER ALBANESE: The Extended Version
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is the difference between Labor and Liberals? Why is Albo perceived as "the weak one" and Dutton as "the strong one"? What has Labor done on clim...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 4: Part Two
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 15 and 16 of Married At First Sight. The drama continues! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG ...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 4: Part One
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 13 and 14 of Married At First Sight. It's all the drama and we love it! LINKS Check out @its...
DR. HARVINDER KAUR: UTI Questions Answered
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Please note that the contents of this episode are not to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP or specialist. Wha...
Geneva on MAFS' Adrian: "10s Only Now."
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Other than Oscar (Perez) "running into" the MAFS crew at a pub, Abbie invites Adrian's ex, Geneva, to tell us what happened the last few weeks they we...
DYLIN HARDCASTLE: Gay Liberation Is Indebted To Blak Trans Women
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this epiosode, there is mention of homophobia, transphobia, mental health issues and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you,...