It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
Episodes
MAFS RECAP: Week 7 Part 1
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 25 and 26 of Married At First Sight. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit....
MAFS Goss Update
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Oscar's inbox has been exploding with your goss, so strap yourself in. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . R...
ADAM BANDT (Leader of the Australian Greens): The Extended Version
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What would The Australian Greens do if they had all the political power? What are their policies? Is voting Greens a wasted vote? What is their stance...
ADAM BANDT (Leader of the Australian Greens): The Shorter Version
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What would The Australian Greens do if they had all the political power? What are their policies? Is voting Greens a wasted vote? What is their stance...
RUBY JADE'S NMF: A Stripper's Night Out
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When Ruby went out with a bunch of her stripper friends, they came across a homophobic, racist, and anti-sex worker guy who was full of contradictions...
MAFS RECAP: Week 6 Part 2
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 23 and 24 of Married At First Sight. A bit less on the trauma and bit more of the 'Real House...
MAFS RECAP: Week 6 Part 1
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 21 and 22 of Married At First Sight. Guys. It's getting disturbing now and we're only at the ...
MAFS Goss Update with Perez Gordon's Intel
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Hot on the trail of the latest goss, Perez has bought the goods this week - including an epic shake up for the contestants in coming weeks.  ...
RUBY JADE: The Professional Girlfriend
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We wanted Ruby Jade to TELL US: What is it like being a hired professional girlfriend getting paid hundreds of dollars without having to have sex? Wha...
SOLO NMF: "The Pig Comes Waltzing In..."
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's this girl's first time where she has penetrative sex and she feels like she's "eating shit". Is she eating literal shit? Well... you'll have to f...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 5: Part 2
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 19 and 20 of Married At First Sight. A hole in the wall proves Abbie's vibes were on point. L...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 5: Part 1
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 17 and 18 of Married At First Sight. Who is the off brand Pringle crumb? Better listen to fin...
MAFS Goss: Adrian and Jasmine in Bali...
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie responds to Adrian's "takedown" and it's HILARIOUS. Perez has accumulated ALL the goss in his DMs. Is it true what he said about Adrian and Jasm...
SOLO: Domestic Labour, Weaponised Incompetence, and Splitting Finances
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The day has come and Adam has finally moved in! Will there be a joint bank account? How will they be sharing household chores? And why is it that they...
PRIME MINISTER ALBANESE: The Shorter Version
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is the difference between Labor and Liberals? Why is Albo perceived as "the weak one" and Dutton as "the strong one"? What has Labor done on clim...
PRIME MINISTER ALBANESE: The Extended Version
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is the difference between Labor and Liberals? Why is Albo perceived as "the weak one" and Dutton as "the strong one"? What has Labor done on clim...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 4: Part Two
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 15 and 16 of Married At First Sight. The drama continues! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG ...
MAFS RECAP WEEK 4: Part One
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 13 and 14 of Married At First Sight. It's all the drama and we love it! LINKS Check out @its...
DR. HARVINDER KAUR: UTI Questions Answered
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Please note that the contents of this episode are not to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP or specialist. Wha...
Geneva on MAFS' Adrian: "10s Only Now."
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Other than Oscar (Perez) "running into" the MAFS crew at a pub, Abbie invites Adrian's ex, Geneva, to tell us what happened the last few weeks they we...
DYLIN HARDCASTLE: Gay Liberation Is Indebted To Blak Trans Women
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this epiosode, there is mention of homophobia, transphobia, mental health issues and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you,...
SOLO NMF: Body Shaming & A Smelly BJ
13 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
There are several things this man has done including body shaming, using abelist rhetoric and, the mother of all sins, a smelly BJ. LINKS Send your N...
MAFS WEEK 3 RECAP: Part 1
13 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 9 and 10 of Married At First Sight. If you thought last week was a lot, strap yourself in, th...
MAFS WEEK 3 RECAP: Part 2
13 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 11 and 12 of Married At First Sight. The rogueness continues... LINKS Check out @itsalotpod ...
MAFS' Morena: I Was Slut-Shamed
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
ANOTHER bombshell from MAFS' DJ Morena! LINKS Follow Morena @djmoerna Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the po...
SOLO: Men Are Scared Of Hearing "No"
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you're a regular TikTok scroller, then you might've come across this. A feminist by the name of Jordan Tan has been going back and forth with anoth...
NMF: Crying Man with A Limp Penis
06 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This Nightmare Fuel horror story is about a man with a journal. One day he leaves his journal behind for this listener to look through and the discove...
MAFS WEEK 2 RECAP: PART 2
06 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http...
MAFS WEEK 2 RECAP: PART 1
06 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 4 and 5. Contestants are saying the most COOKED SH*T that Abbie has SO MUCH to get through. I...
CULT SURVIVOR NAT P2: "I'm gay. I'm a sinner."
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is discussion of severe physical and emotional abuse. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by...
CULT SURVIVOR NAT P1: "We Were Hit, Punished, Isolated"
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is discussion of severe physical and emotional abuse. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by...
BIANCA DEL RIO'S NMF: Cher With A Front Hemrrhoid
30 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Season Six Drag Race Winner Bianca Del Rio's early days were not so much about the glam. This Nightmare Fuel is all about the time she lipsynced to Ch...
MAFS WEEK 1 RECAP: PART 2
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Now that Abbie has introduced you to the contestants, it's time to cover episode 2 and 3 of MAFS this week. Enjoy!...
MAFS WEEK 1 RECAP: PART 1
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie has taken it upon herself to watch every MAFS episode to give you a recap, tell you her thoughts on the cont...
BIANCA DEL RIO: "Just Accept That You're Not A Winner"
27 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Winner of Season 6 of Drag Race, Bianca Del Rio, had all of us in stitches with her whitty political commentary, her trolling speech and reflections o...
NMF: Abbie's Holiday Nightmare
23 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
First red flag: this man wanted to meet her in person. Second red flag: He was wearing Espadrilles (Abbie will elaborate if you're not a fashion chook...
SOLO: I'm At Rock Bottom
20 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is a mention of suicidal ideation. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline'...
ICYMI: JOSH THOMAS' NMF: "I Locked My D*ck in A Cage"
16 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
TWO stories from the HILARIOUS Josh Thomas such as how he ended up a d*ck cage and the ultimate 'who smelt it dealt it'. LINKS Find tickets to Josh T...
ALEXIS FERNANDEZ: If You Have No Idea How To Start 2025...
13 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's easy to set goals but it's much harder to achieve and maintain new habits. Neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez has written a book about navigating ch...
ICYMI: "Picture Kath and Kel Kissing" A Nightmare Fuel with Christian Hull
09 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
One of the bloodiest (and sluttiest) Nightmare Fuels you'll ever hear featuring the podcaster planning to steal Abbie's spot; Christian Hull. LINKS C...
ICYMI: It's ACTUALLY Dan Savage!!!
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Sa...
ICYMI: "A Hot Guy with a Bag of Maccas Comes in..." A Nightmare Fuel with Toni Lodge
02 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Author and Comedian Toni Lodge's flirting attempts at a house party have led to this week's HILARIOUS Nightmare Fuel. LINKS Check out @itsalotp...
ICYMI: "I Worried I was Just the Girl with the Dead Mum" with Toni Lodge
30 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How can a conversation about a dead parent be so funny? Toni Lodge (of the Toni and Ryan podcast) LEGIT makes Abbie piss herself in this one. If any o...
A Bonus Christmas Present!
28 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie's been asking Cherylyn for a NMF for AGES and the time has finally come... LINKS Subscribe to Cherylyn's YT https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3 Follow Chery...
ICYMI: My Therapy Session with Esther Perel
23 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why does a sense of danger make us horny? When is it time to leave a relationship? What to do when you feel ambivalent about your partner? Is there an...
I Finally Swam with Dolphins
19 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie decided to give this positive update and deep dive (lol) into the world of dolphins. It's SCARY how much she knows ...
CHRISTMAS ADVICE P2 WITH ADAM: Shitty Inlaws
16 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Part 2 of Xmas Advice is with ADAM!!! We start off by discussing what Christmas is like with divorced parents but by the end of this episode, we're al...
CHRISTMAS ADVICE P1: You're Allowed To Skip Christmas with Family
16 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If your family is being transphobic, fatphobic or bigoted, you're allowed to skip Christmas lunch you know. In part one of this episode, Abbie answers...
GINGER DOLL NMF: "Your Client Did A P**?"
12 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ew ew ew ew EW! Ginger Doll's NMF is truly horrifying. We wanted a client story though, right? LINKS Follow Ginger Doll on IG https://www.instagram.c...
GINGER DOLL: Sex Work As A Deaf Person, Brothels, And The Whore-archy
09 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What is it like being a deaf sex worker? How does fetishisation and ableism intersect? And what is Whore-archy? Deaf sex worker and disability advocat...
NMF CONTINUED: The Man On The Run
05 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
When a listener told us her story about her "man on the run", Harrison James and Abbie HAD TO get her back on to find out more. LINKS Listen to the o...
GSPOT + DEMON DERRIERE: Kinky KINKY Sex
02 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What is the difference between a kink and a fetish? What are some problematic fetishes? What do I do if I'm new to kinky sex? Sex Expert Georgia Grace...
SOLO NMF: A BJ With A Twist
28 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Short one today but also one that emphasises the need for all of us women to listen to that voice inside us that tells us LEAVE HIM. So many toxic cre...
SOLO: The US Is Heading Towards A Theocracy
25 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The last time Abbie spoke about US politics on the podcast, there was hope that Trump would be the one losing. With him back in charge, expect more ta...
BLUE EYED KAYLA JADE: A Sex Worker's NIGHTMARE!
21 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Sex Worker and TikTok star Blue Eyed Kayla Jade returns for a Nightmare Fuel featuring a client she calls "Peggy Sue". Peggy LOVES to get pegged by al...
BLUE EYED KAYLA JADE: Bonnie Blue, 4B, & The Girth Master
18 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Sex Worker and TikTok star Kayla Jade (who goes by the name blueeyedkaylajade) has BLOWN UP on TikTok going from 900K followers to 1.4 Million in 2 we...
HARRISON JAMES NMF: The Man On The Run
14 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We haven't received a Nightmare Fuel like this in a WHILE. In a decade-long romantic drama full of twists and turns, this listener gets with a man who...
HARRISON JAMES: "My Stepmum Fell Pregnant With My Daughter"
11 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please...
SOLO NMF: "I Birthed A Condom"
07 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This woman birthed this guy's condom and he had barely anything to say. Are we surprised??? LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly...
SOLO P2: US Elections 2024
04 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. MAGA on economics, christian values and all of our result predictions. LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal...
SOLO P1: US Elections 2024
04 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie.Just.Can't.DEAL! Her entire TikTok feed is FULL of MAGA randoms talking about women, JD Vance, climate chang...
SOLO NMF: Stress Test At An ED Clinic
31 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of eating disorder. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's we...
FBOY ISLAND'S KRYSTAL P2: "I Pulled The Plug On Paddy"
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This is Part 2 of a 2 part episode and it's JUICY... Lead of FBoy Island Season 2, Krystal, continues her conversation with Abbie and they address the...
FBOY ISLAND'S KRYSTAL P1: "I Grew Up with A LOT Of Daddy Issues"
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
FYI: This is Part 1 of a 2 part episode. Like Abbie, FBoy Australia's Season 2 lead Krystal grew up with A LOT of Daddy Issues. By the way, only peo...
ADVICE with ADAM: The Fobridden Crush
24 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What if you fall in love with someone who is already with someone else but is clearly flirting with you? Do you tell them? Do you cut them off? We all...
CARMEN AZZOPARDI: Periods, Living with Diabetes & Family Estrangement
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The amazing, stylish, chronic illness advocate Carmen Azzopardi sits down with Abbie to discuss the impact of childhood trauma on her health, navigati...
AMA with ADAM: Jealousy, Renting & Kids
21 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Adam is here to answer YOUR questions like: Will Abbie and Adam get married and have kids? Will Adam pay Abbie rent when he moves in? And, how does he...
FELICITY WARD NMF: "He's Like An STD And There's No Cream"
17 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The first ever female lead on The Office, Felicity Ward, shares her Nightmare Fuel story for the first time EVER. It's the torrid tale of a Spaniard w...
SOLO: UTI, Influencer Marketing, And Democrats Controlling The Weather
14 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
An absolutely CHAOTIC solo episode swinging between Abbie's new Kink Kit (YAY!), her UTI fingering treatment, a mini rant about Meta, and what her tax...
ADAM NMF: The London FBoy
10 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's bring your BF to work day!!! Adam joins in for a Nightmare Fuel about a London-based FBoy who is forever promising tickets to Glastonbury Festiva...
The Royal Commission into the Australian Defence Force with Jordyn from The Athena Project Part 2
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there are discussions of sexual violence and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visit...
The Royal Commission into the Australian Defence Force with Jordyn from The Athena Project Part 1
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there are discussions of sexual violence and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visit...
SOLO: AMA The F-Boy Finale Dump
03 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Unless you've been living under a rock you'll know that F-Boy Island has wrapped for season two so I thought I'd gift your gorgeous chooks with an epi...
SOLO: Re-Homing Daisy
30 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's one of the toughest decisions Abbie's ever had to make and it's hard to talk about. Here's why Abbie had to re-home her beautiful little Lady Di ...
AMY TAYLOR NMF: The Italian Lover With Bulging Eyes
26 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The Italian man with the bulging eyes told her that her "hair is small", he called her while eating raw meat AND THEN he played a weird sex game that ...
AMY TAYLOR: "You're Like The GOOD Joe Rogan For Girls"
23 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The coolest person to come out of Australia in the past 50 years: AMY TAYLOR of Amyl and the Sniffers.LINKS Listen to Amyl and the Sniffers on Spotif...
LOU WALL NMF: The Muffin And The Dog
19 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Lou Wall's dry humour about mistaking a dog for a muffin had us on the floor in the first 4 minutes of them opening their mouth. The actual Nightmare ...
US DEBATE YAPS: Fracking, Palestine, and JD Vance
16 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The second part of Abbie yapping about the debate and this time we look at Kamala's position on Palestine and some of her views which Abbie opposes. ...
US DEBATE YAPS: Economy, Abortion, And Immigration
16 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We have SO MUCH to say about the US Debate between Trump and Vice President Harris. Does Trump know what a "tarrif" is and how it works? Why is no one...
SOLO NMF: Contraception Nightmare
12 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
"JUST CHECK THE BOX BEFORE YOU SHOVE IT INTO MY CERVIX!" is a very valid point this listener made in response to this traumatic Nightmare Fuel.LINKS ...
MISSY HIGGINS: New Album, Dating, Parenting And Sexuality
09 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you regularly listen to this podcast, you'll know that singer/songwriter and Aussie icon Missy Higgins has derailed the podcast when Abbie couldn't...
MATT AGNEW NMF: Is What Mum Did Normal?
05 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of animal cruelty. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's web...
MATT AGNEW PART 2: Is AI That Bad?
02 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Will AI make us or break us? Should we be scared of it? How can AI change human interactions? In preparation for his new kids book "Is My Phone Readin...
MATT AGNEW PART 1: The Bachelor And Mental Health
02 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of suicide and suicide attempt. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting L...
SOLO NMF: "Begging To Touch My Boobs At Hungry Jack's"
29 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
When this listener meets a guy she's dating who's surrounded by 10 of his friends, immaturity becomes the theme of the night. It also doesn't help tha...
SOLO AMA: Adam &I, My Book, And Ethical Nonmonogamy
26 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie's answering your questions about the highs and lows with Adam, what's happening with her book, and some advice on ethical non-monogamy.LINKS Wa...
Dr Jen Gunter Answers A Listener's Question
22 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Disclaimer: None of the contents of this episode are to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP. Since SO MANY listeners ...
BONUS SOLO: My Thoughts On The 'It Ends With Us' Drama
20 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of domestic violence. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's ...
DR. JEN GUNTER: The Woowoo-fication Of Women's Health
19 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Disclaimer: None of the contents of this episode are to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP. What is menopause and pe...
ALYSSA HUYNH'S NMF: "No One Was Doing ANYTHING..."
15 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at ...
ALYSSA HUYNH PART 2: Examples Of Microagressions
12 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at ...
ALYSSA HUYNH PART 1: "We Are Made To Feel Invisible"
12 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at ...
STEPH TISDELL'S NMF: "Oh. That Was Sex?"
08 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Author, Comedian, and Actress Steph Tisdell brings in not one but THREE Nightmare Fuels in one episode. Hear about Abbie's vibrator in her car, the qu...
SOLO: The Egg Drama, Trump's Gaslighting, And Imane Khelif
05 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of transphobia and racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeli...
NAJWA ZEBIAN P2: When To Cut Bonds With Family
29 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Abbie shifts gears with Canadian-Lebanese author Najwa Zebian and asks: When is it the right time to cut ties with your family? LINKS Listen to Part ...
NAJWA ZEBIAN P1: When Do I Leave A Relationship?
29 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of abuse within toxic relationships. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visit...
SOLO NMF: "Cock Out In The Breeze"
25 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of sexual assault and harrasment. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting...
SOLO P2: My Thoughts On Biden Stepping Down
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
ANYONE BUT TRUMP PLZ! Abbie's thoughts on Biden stepping down: It doesn't have to be the perfect candidate, it's time for the Left to unite just like ...
SOLO P1: Men Teaching Me Things
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Oscar is BACK and has a cooked wedding story to tell. Meanwhile, Abbie is preoccupied with a mansplaining TikToker who has a hot take on "perception" ...
SOLO NMF P2: "That Took A Horrifying Turn..."
18 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, there is mention of stalking and threatening behaviour. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by vis...