It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

SOLO NMF: Body Shaming & A Smelly BJ

13 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

There are several things this man has done including body shaming, using abelist rhetoric and, the mother of all sins, a smelly BJ. LINKS Send your N...

MAFS WEEK 3 RECAP: Part 1

13 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 9 and 10 of Married At First Sight. If you thought last week was a lot, strap yourself in, th...

MAFS WEEK 3 RECAP: Part 2

13 Feb 2025

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This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 11 and 12 of Married At First Sight. The rogueness continues... LINKS Check out @itsalotpod ...

MAFS' Morena: I Was Slut-Shamed

12 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

ANOTHER bombshell from MAFS' DJ Morena! LINKS Follow Morena @djmoerna Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the po...

SOLO: Men Are Scared Of Hearing "No"

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you're a regular TikTok scroller, then you might've come across this. A feminist by the name of Jordan Tan has been going back and forth with anoth...

NMF: Crying Man with A Limp Penis

06 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This Nightmare Fuel horror story is about a man with a journal. One day he leaves his journal behind for this listener to look through and the discove...

MAFS WEEK 2 RECAP: PART 2

06 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http...

MAFS WEEK 2 RECAP: PART 1

06 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie recaps episode 4 and 5. Contestants are saying the most COOKED SH*T that Abbie has SO MUCH to get through. I...

CULT SURVIVOR NAT P2: "I'm gay. I'm a sinner."

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is discussion of severe physical and emotional abuse. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by...

CULT SURVIVOR NAT P1: "We Were Hit, Punished, Isolated"

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is discussion of severe physical and emotional abuse. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by...

BIANCA DEL RIO'S NMF: Cher With A Front Hemrrhoid

30 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Season Six Drag Race Winner Bianca Del Rio's early days were not so much about the glam. This Nightmare Fuel is all about the time she lipsynced to Ch...

MAFS WEEK 1 RECAP: PART 2

29 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Now that Abbie has introduced you to the contestants, it's time to cover episode 2 and 3 of MAFS this week. Enjoy!...

MAFS WEEK 1 RECAP: PART 1

29 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie has taken it upon herself to watch every MAFS episode to give you a recap, tell you her thoughts on the cont...

BIANCA DEL RIO: "Just Accept That You're Not A Winner"

27 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Winner of Season 6 of Drag Race, Bianca Del Rio, had all of us in stitches with her whitty political commentary, her trolling speech and reflections o...

NMF: Abbie's Holiday Nightmare

23 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

First red flag: this man wanted to meet her in person. Second red flag: He was wearing Espadrilles (Abbie will elaborate if you're not a fashion chook...

SOLO: I'm At Rock Bottom

20 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is a mention of suicidal ideation. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline'...

ICYMI: JOSH THOMAS' NMF: "I Locked My D*ck in A Cage"

16 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

TWO stories from the HILARIOUS Josh Thomas such as how he ended up a d*ck cage and the ultimate 'who smelt it dealt it'. LINKS Find tickets to Josh T...

ALEXIS FERNANDEZ: If You Have No Idea How To Start 2025...

13 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

It's easy to set goals but it's much harder to achieve and maintain new habits. Neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez has written a book about navigating ch...

ICYMI: "Picture Kath and Kel Kissing" A Nightmare Fuel with Christian Hull

09 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

One of the bloodiest (and sluttiest) Nightmare Fuels you'll ever hear featuring the podcaster planning to steal Abbie's spot; Christian Hull. LINKS C...

ICYMI: It's ACTUALLY Dan Savage!!!

06 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Sa...

ICYMI: "A Hot Guy with a Bag of Maccas Comes in..." A Nightmare Fuel with Toni Lodge

02 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Author and Comedian Toni Lodge's flirting attempts at a house party have led to this week's HILARIOUS Nightmare Fuel.  LINKS Check out @itsalotp...

ICYMI: "I Worried I was Just the Girl with the Dead Mum" with Toni Lodge

30 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How can a conversation about a dead parent be so funny? Toni Lodge (of the Toni and Ryan podcast) LEGIT makes Abbie piss herself in this one. If any o...

A Bonus Christmas Present!

28 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Abbie's been asking Cherylyn for a NMF for AGES and the time has finally come... LINKS Subscribe to Cherylyn's YT https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3 Follow Chery...

ICYMI: My Therapy Session with Esther Perel

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why does a sense of danger make us horny? When is it time to leave a relationship? What to do when you feel ambivalent about your partner? Is there an...

I Finally Swam with Dolphins

19 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie decided to give this positive update and deep dive (lol) into the world of dolphins. It's SCARY how much she knows ...

CHRISTMAS ADVICE P2 WITH ADAM: Shitty Inlaws

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Part 2 of Xmas Advice is with ADAM!!! We start off by discussing what Christmas is like with divorced parents but by the end of this episode, we're al...

CHRISTMAS ADVICE P1: You're Allowed To Skip Christmas with Family

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

If your family is being transphobic, fatphobic or bigoted, you're allowed to skip Christmas lunch you know. In part one of this episode, Abbie answers...

GINGER DOLL NMF: "Your Client Did A P**?"

12 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Ew ew ew ew EW! Ginger Doll's NMF is truly horrifying. We wanted a client story though, right? LINKS Follow Ginger Doll on IG https://www.instagram.c...

GINGER DOLL: Sex Work As A Deaf Person, Brothels, And The Whore-archy

09 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What is it like being a deaf sex worker? How does fetishisation and ableism intersect? And what is Whore-archy? Deaf sex worker and disability advocat...

NMF CONTINUED: The Man On The Run

05 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When a listener told us her story about her "man on the run", Harrison James and Abbie HAD TO get her back on to find out more. LINKS Listen to the o...

GSPOT + DEMON DERRIERE: Kinky KINKY Sex

02 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What is the difference between a kink and a fetish? What are some problematic fetishes? What do I do if I'm new to kinky sex? Sex Expert Georgia Grace...

SOLO NMF: A BJ With A Twist

28 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Short one today but also one that emphasises the need for all of us women to listen to that voice inside us that tells us LEAVE HIM. So many toxic cre...

SOLO: The US Is Heading Towards A Theocracy

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The last time Abbie spoke about US politics on the podcast, there was hope that Trump would be the one losing. With him back in charge, expect more ta...

BLUE EYED KAYLA JADE: A Sex Worker's NIGHTMARE!

21 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Sex Worker and TikTok star Blue Eyed Kayla Jade returns for a Nightmare Fuel featuring a client she calls "Peggy Sue". Peggy LOVES to get pegged by al...

BLUE EYED KAYLA JADE: Bonnie Blue, 4B, & The Girth Master

18 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Sex Worker and TikTok star Kayla Jade (who goes by the name blueeyedkaylajade) has BLOWN UP on TikTok going from 900K followers to 1.4 Million in 2 we...

HARRISON JAMES NMF: The Man On The Run

14 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We haven't received a Nightmare Fuel like this in a WHILE. In a decade-long romantic drama full of twists and turns, this listener gets with a man who...

HARRISON JAMES: "My Stepmum Fell Pregnant With My Daughter"

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please...

SOLO NMF: "I Birthed A Condom"

07 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This woman birthed this guy's condom and he had barely anything to say. Are we surprised??? LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly...

SOLO P2: US Elections 2024

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. MAGA on economics, christian values and all of our result predictions. LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal...

SOLO P1: US Elections 2024

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie.Just.Can't.DEAL! Her entire TikTok feed is FULL of MAGA randoms talking about women, JD Vance, climate chang...

SOLO NMF: Stress Test At An ED Clinic

31 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of eating disorder. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's we...

FBOY ISLAND'S KRYSTAL P2: "I Pulled The Plug On Paddy"

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This is Part 2 of a 2 part episode and it's JUICY... Lead of FBoy Island Season 2, Krystal, continues her conversation with Abbie and they address the...

FBOY ISLAND'S KRYSTAL P1: "I Grew Up with A LOT Of Daddy Issues"

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

FYI: This is Part 1 of a 2 part episode.  Like Abbie, FBoy Australia's Season 2 lead Krystal grew up with A LOT of Daddy Issues. By the way, only peo...

ADVICE with ADAM: The Fobridden Crush

24 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What if you fall in love with someone who is already with someone else but is clearly flirting with you? Do you tell them? Do you cut them off? We all...

CARMEN AZZOPARDI: Periods, Living with Diabetes & Family Estrangement

23 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The amazing, stylish, chronic illness advocate Carmen Azzopardi sits down with Abbie to discuss the impact of childhood trauma on her health, navigati...

AMA with ADAM: Jealousy, Renting & Kids

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Adam is here to answer YOUR questions like: Will Abbie and Adam get married and have kids? Will Adam pay Abbie rent when he moves in? And, how does he...

FELICITY WARD NMF: "He's Like An STD And There's No Cream"

17 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The first ever female lead on The Office, Felicity Ward, shares her Nightmare Fuel story for the first time EVER. It's the torrid tale of a Spaniard w...

SOLO: UTI, Influencer Marketing, And Democrats Controlling The Weather

14 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

An absolutely CHAOTIC solo episode swinging between Abbie's new Kink Kit (YAY!), her UTI fingering treatment, a mini rant about Meta, and what her tax...

ADAM NMF: The London FBoy

10 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It's bring your BF to work day!!! Adam joins in for a Nightmare Fuel about a London-based FBoy who is forever promising tickets to Glastonbury Festiva...

The Royal Commission into the Australian Defence Force with Jordyn from The Athena Project Part 2

07 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there are discussions of sexual violence and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visit...

The Royal Commission into the Australian Defence Force with Jordyn from The Athena Project Part 1

07 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there are discussions of sexual violence and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visit...

SOLO: AMA The F-Boy Finale Dump

03 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Unless you've been living under a rock you'll know that F-Boy Island has wrapped for season two so I thought I'd gift your gorgeous chooks with an epi...

SOLO: Re-Homing Daisy

30 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It's one of the toughest decisions Abbie's ever had to make and it's hard to talk about. Here's why Abbie had to re-home her beautiful little Lady Di ...

AMY TAYLOR NMF: The Italian Lover With Bulging Eyes

26 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The Italian man with the bulging eyes told her that her "hair is small", he called her while eating raw meat AND THEN he played a weird sex game that ...

AMY TAYLOR: "You're Like The GOOD Joe Rogan For Girls"

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The coolest person to come out of Australia in the past 50 years: AMY TAYLOR of Amyl and the Sniffers.LINKS Listen to Amyl and the Sniffers on Spotif...

LOU WALL NMF: The Muffin And The Dog

19 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Lou Wall's dry humour about mistaking a dog for a muffin had us on the floor in the first 4 minutes of them opening their mouth. The actual Nightmare ...

US DEBATE YAPS: Fracking, Palestine, and JD Vance

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The second part of Abbie yapping about the debate and this time we look at Kamala's position on Palestine and some of her views which Abbie opposes. ...

US DEBATE YAPS: Economy, Abortion, And Immigration

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We have SO MUCH to say about the US Debate between Trump and Vice President Harris. Does Trump know what a "tarrif" is and how it works? Why is no one...

SOLO NMF: Contraception Nightmare

12 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

"JUST CHECK THE BOX BEFORE YOU SHOVE IT INTO MY CERVIX!" is a very valid point this listener made in response to this traumatic Nightmare Fuel.LINKS ...

MISSY HIGGINS: New Album, Dating, Parenting And Sexuality

09 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

If you regularly listen to this podcast, you'll know that singer/songwriter and Aussie icon Missy Higgins has derailed the podcast when Abbie couldn't...

MATT AGNEW NMF: Is What Mum Did Normal?

05 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of animal cruelty. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's web...

MATT AGNEW PART 2: Is AI That Bad?

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Will AI make us or break us? Should we be scared of it? How can AI change human interactions? In preparation for his new kids book "Is My Phone Readin...

MATT AGNEW PART 1: The Bachelor And Mental Health

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of suicide and suicide attempt. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting L...

SOLO NMF: "Begging To Touch My Boobs At Hungry Jack's"

29 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When this listener meets a guy she's dating who's surrounded by 10 of his friends, immaturity becomes the theme of the night. It also doesn't help tha...

SOLO AMA: Adam &I, My Book, And Ethical Nonmonogamy

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Abbie's answering your questions about the highs and lows with Adam, what's happening with her book, and some advice on ethical non-monogamy.LINKS Wa...

Dr Jen Gunter Answers A Listener's Question

22 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Disclaimer: None of the contents of this episode are to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP. Since SO MANY listeners ...

BONUS SOLO: My Thoughts On The 'It Ends With Us' Drama

20 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of domestic violence. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's ...

DR. JEN GUNTER: The Woowoo-fication Of Women's Health

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Disclaimer: None of the contents of this episode are to be taken as medical advice. For medical advice, please visit your GP. What is menopause and pe...

ALYSSA HUYNH'S NMF: "No One Was Doing ANYTHING..."

15 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at ...

ALYSSA HUYNH PART 2: Examples Of Microagressions

12 Aug 2024

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In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at ...

ALYSSA HUYNH PART 1: "We Are Made To Feel Invisible"

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at ...

STEPH TISDELL'S NMF: "Oh. That Was Sex?"

08 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Author, Comedian, and Actress Steph Tisdell brings in not one but THREE Nightmare Fuels in one episode. Hear about Abbie's vibrator in her car, the qu...

SOLO: The Egg Drama, Trump's Gaslighting, And Imane Khelif

05 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of transphobia and racism. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeli...

NAJWA ZEBIAN P2: When To Cut Bonds With Family

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Abbie shifts gears with Canadian-Lebanese author Najwa Zebian and asks: When is it the right time to cut ties with your family? LINKS Listen to Part ...

NAJWA ZEBIAN P1: When Do I Leave A Relationship?

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of abuse within toxic relationships. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visit...

SOLO NMF: "Cock Out In The Breeze"

25 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of sexual assault and harrasment. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting...

SOLO P2: My Thoughts On Biden Stepping Down

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

ANYONE BUT TRUMP PLZ! Abbie's thoughts on Biden stepping down: It doesn't have to be the perfect candidate, it's time for the Left to unite just like ...

SOLO P1: Men Teaching Me Things

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Oscar is BACK and has a cooked wedding story to tell. Meanwhile, Abbie is preoccupied with a mansplaining TikToker who has a hot take on "perception" ...

SOLO NMF P2: "That Took A Horrifying Turn..."

18 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of stalking and threatening behaviour. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by vis...

SOLO NMF P1: The Rich Clown Who Wants To Live Forever

18 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, there is mention of stalking and threatening behaviour. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by vis...

PATRIC GAGNE: "I'm A Diagnosed Sociopath"

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What is Sociopathy and how does it differ from Psychopathy? Can Sociopathy be considered a neurodivergence? And, what does life look like for someone ...

BONUS: Trump's Assasination Attempt

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Abbie, Oscar and Lem have SO many thoughts on what's going on in the US right now so here's a little extra bonus all about Trump's assasination. Cuh-R...

TWO BROKE CHICKS NMF P2: "I Have Nothing Left In Me"

11 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

After a heavy night of drinking with party animals Lucy and Nikki, Two Broke Chicks' Sal found herself at the back of an Uber regretting her life deci...

SOLO P2: Charli XCX Is My Taylor Swift

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Make no mistake. Abbie is NOT pro Joe Biden but she's vehemently anti-Trump. But will Charli XCX save us all? LINKS Listen to Charli XCX's new album ...

SOLO P1: Mental Health Update And An Abortion Epiphany

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Abbie talks at length about suicidal ideation and abortion. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by...

TWO BROKE CHICKS NMF P1: "I Showed Bondi My Coochie"

04 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Two Broke Chicks' Al has had far too many times where she was naked in the most awkward of situations. Here's the first part of the Two Broke Chicks' ...

TWO BROKE CHICKS P2: What If My Friend Is Dating A D*ckhead?

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when your friends suddenly have kids and their whole lives have changed? Are all toxic friendships obvious? And, what if you're friend ...

TWO BROKE CHICKS P1: Friendships, Weddings And Finances

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What are the signs of a toxic friendship? Is a long friendship necessarily the best one? And, Abbie has a special wedding rant that is GLORIOUS! LINKS...

LIZZY HOO: "I'm A Baby In A Nappy"

27 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heads up: Lots of poo chat in this one How on earth is comedian Lizzy Hoo going to survive a 45 minute interview she thought was only 10 minutes long ...

Abbie's Bday Surprise: Adam's C*ck Cloning

25 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What do you give the woman who has it all? A 'Love Prank' maybe? LINKS Listen to Keli Holiday's new EP https://bit.ly/3yPMyJ1 Review the podcast on A...

SOLO: "I Didn't Even Get Past The Cervix Clamping..."

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A failed IUD insertion, The Handmaid's Tale vasectomy chats, traumatic housework devision from previous relationships, and various other Abbie life up...

KELSEY FLETCHER'S NMF: "I NEED To Fake An Orgasm..."

20 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When they first met at a park bench on her birthday, Abbie's 'civilian' friend Kelsey Fletcher thought this man could amount to something. Little did ...

ANGELA WHITE: "For Me, Porn Is The Perfect Job"

17 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Porn producer, director and performer Angela White is back for another chat with Abbie to answer more questions such as: What does anal prepping look ...

MITCH GREER'S NMF P2: "We're Not Going To Be Catfished Again"

13 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

There is NO WAY Mitch is going to fall for another catfishing account again. But this time, 'TikTok Influencer Bitch' Mitch Greer's interaction with p...

SOLO: America What's Your Deal?!

10 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Now the relationship has been launched, HARD, Abbie can FINALLY talk about her trip to The Americas with her boyfriend. And let's just say, she has so...

AMA with Kath Ebbs And Adam Hyde

06 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Will Adam and Abbie move in together? Are they monogamous? Would they ever make a sex toy together? And does Adam mind being on the cock carousel? Per...

THE HARD LAUNCH PART 2

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

A continuation of how Abbie and her BF developed that initial crush into a serious relationship, how he provided a safe space for Abbie to feel secure...

THE HARD LAUNCH PART 1

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do we need to be clearer with this one? MEET ABBIE'S BOYFRIEND and follow along how they met, who asked who out on a date first, and who went for the ...

MITCH GREER'S NMF: "He's Six Foot Three, Blue Eyes, Works In Finance"

30 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

"I only thought this could happen to middle aged mums on TLC networks" is what influencer Mitch Greer said after she discovered that sexy finance Tom ...

SOLO: "I'm Slowly Confessing My Sins To My BF"

27 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Being in a 'secure' relationship has caused Abbie to reflect A LOT on her past behaviour in crushes and relationships. This episode is full of caution...