U Up?
Episodes
How Do I Make the First Move Without Coming Off Desperate?
17 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J and J are back and this week the show’s theme relates to initiating romantic contact with a guy without coming on too strong. At 13:25 a listener ...
Bonus U Up?: Live At Canton Hall Ft. Raven Gates
12 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J and J take the show on the road for a very special bonus episode recorded live in Dallas, TX. At 8:15 they talk about the best opening lines to use ...
What’s The Difference Between Loving Someone and Being “In Love?”
10 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The Js are back with an ep you won’t want to miss. This week’s topic is longer term relationships and they discuss The Five Love Languages by Gary...
How Do I Stop My Boyfriend From Acting Like a Drunk Asshole? Ft. Girls Gotta Eat
03 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The Js are back, hot off their live show in Dallas. They briefly discuss how men ask a few close friends about new partners, while women get opinions ...
What’s The Best Way to Get Someone to Stop Texting You?
26 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The J squad is back with another ep you won’t want to miss. At 15:15, a listener asks what to do about a friend whose new guy is clearly a bunch of ...
Did Instagram Ruin My Relationship? Ft. Corinne Fisher
19 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The Js are back. They briefly discuss an article that says 18-year-old women get the most swipes and the most responses on dating apps. At 19:42, they...
Bonus: U Up? Live At The Comedy Cellar (10 PM Show) Ft. Michelle Wolf
14 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The duo of Js returns with another bonus ep from their unreal night at the Comedy Cellar’s Village Underground. It’s a wild one. The topic this ti...
When Do You Introduce Your S/O To Your Friends?
12 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The Js return with an episode about meeting your S/O’s friends. At 11:17, they take an email from a listener who has gone on a few great dates, but ...
Bonus: U Up? Live At The Comedy Cellar (8 PM Show) Ft. Matteo Lane
07 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J Squared is back with a bonus ep. from their epic night at the Comedy Cellar's Village Underground. The topic this time around: How to be an excellen...
Is It Crazy to Call Someone Out After Stalking Their Instagram Story?
05 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jor and Jar return for an amazing episode about going deep into peoples’ social media profiles. Jared says you know you’ve gone too far when you h...
How to Know You're Chasing The Wrong People
29 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Dub-J are back with an episode you don’t want to miss. At 3:54, they take an email from a listener who went to block a male creeper, but when she sa...
Is a Cheap Guy a Dealbreaker?
22 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J squared are back. They start off discussing "Attached" by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller, a book that casts people into three groups: the anxious, the ...
To Text or Not To Double Text
15 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J and J are back. At 3:00, they take their first email about when to double text - if ever. Is sending five iMessages in a row the same as two texts? ...
Should I Swipe Right on Someone I Know IRL?
08 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
After a brief discussion of "k" texts, J squared agrees that "Kk" is polite while "k" is extremely aggressive. At 12:37 they take a letter from a list...
Can I Go Through My S/O's Texts?
01 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J and J are back. At 3:11, they take an email about a boyfriend who has yet to post a picture of her on his Instagram. The thing is he posts A LOT. At...
Why Do Guys Stop Putting Effort Into Long Term Relationships? Ft. Hinge Founder Justin McLeod
25 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana talk about the general state of U Up? which is now recommended by some therapists. Jared tells the story of a good friend who is in ...
Why Do Guys Really Send Dick Pics?
18 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J and J are back with an amazing 90 minute episode. At 4:40, a listener writes that she was “blindsided” by her boyfriend’s choice to end their ...
Bonus: U Up? Live at the Comedy Cellar (10PM Show) Ft. Liza Treyger
13 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J Squared is back with another bonus ep. from their epic night at the Comedy Cellar's Village Underground. The topic this time around: how to deal wit...
What's The Ideal Day of the Week for a First Date?
11 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Everyone's favorite Js are back discussing early date activities. At 5:39, they take a letter from a listener asking about what's "too much" to ask fo...
Do You Have To Break Up If They're Not The One?
04 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
It's summer fling and fun season. The Js start things off fast this Independence Day. At 3:40, they take a letter from a girl who's 6'1" and thinks sh...
Bonus: U Up? Live at the Comedy Cellar Ft. Andi Dorfman
29 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Don't miss this very special bonus episode of U Up? where Jared and Jordana take letters and play games in front of a sold-out crowd at NYC's legendar...
Should You Tell Your Partner About A Time You “Almost” Cheated?
27 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana are buzzing after their sold-out live show. They talk about a Twitter thread by a girl describing the perfect behavior from the perf...
How Important Is It That Your Significant Other Likes Your Family?
20 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana deem guys who get into relationship mode too fast, "the male thirst trap." At 6:33, they take a letter from a listener on the topic ...
Can You Start a Real Relationship From an Instagram Thirst Trap?
13 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jordana and Jared take a letter from a listener asking about Instagram thirst traps. Do they come off as desperate? Do they work? After, they debut a ...
When's The Right Time To Talk About Your Sexual History? Feat. Taylor Strecker
06 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jordana and Jared talk about the Dobler-Dahmer Theory from How I Met Your Mother. The theory states that a big romantic gesture is either creepy or am...
Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?
30 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jordana and Jared talk Plan B, condoms and more in this particularly intimate episode. They take a letter from a listener who has been using the pull-...
Is It OK to Ask How Many People They’ve Slept With? Feat. Andy Cohen
23 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J and J talk about U Up? live shows (be sure to follow @uuppod on Instagram for updates and ticket info). They take a letter from a listener who had h...
How Do You Handle The First Fart In a Relationship? (Ft. Jax Taylor)
16 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana take a letter from a listener asking about the right time to start posting pictures with a new partner. A listener asks how to get o...
How Long Should I Put Up With a Guy Texting Me Without Asking Me Out?
09 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jar-dana get a letter from a listener who is the only single person in a friend group of couples. Another listener feels stuck in a pen pals situation...
How Do You Extend a Vacation Hook-Up?
02 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jordana's returned from Coachella. jared's decided that the people who hate on Coachella have officially become more annoying than the people who go. ...
What Do I Get a Guy For His Birthday If We've Only Been Dating a Month?
25 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jor and Jar start with a listener asking if it's a red flag that dudes always ask her for a pic over the apps. A girl in a new relationship asks for t...
The Reason Guys Don’t Make Plans in Advance
18 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jor and Jar talk about scenes in different cities like comedy, music, and magic (are there magic open mics?). After they move on to the complications ...
What's The Proper Post Breakup Protocol?
11 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jor and Jar are joined by hilarious comedian, Matteo Lane for this special ep. Matteo brings a new perspective to the pod as someone who's seasoned at...
How Do I Tell Someone I'm Seeing That I'm a Virgin
04 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J-Train and Jordana answer an email from a listener who is struggling with their virginity. Double J explain that it's just not as big of a deal as it...
How Soon Should I Get Back on Dating Apps After a Breakup? Ft. Hannah Bronfman
28 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jordana and Jared field a letter from a listener who wonders why past boyfriends refused to put their relationship on Facebook. Another letter asks wh...
Should I Hide the Fact That I Smoke Weed on a Dating App?
21 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana field a letter from a listener who is both weirded out by the guy who doesn’t ask for the date on a dating app and the guy who ask...
Is It Messed Up That My Boyfriend Goes to Strip Clubs?
14 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
J&J start with a letter from a listener who sent a "Red flag or dealbreaker" as an opening line on a dating app and revealed he doesn't respect girls ...
What Do Guys Really Think of Fake Boobs?
07 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana discuss their partying and drinking habits. J&J agree on rose. Jordana confesses to being the type of drunk that loves to start figh...
How Many Dates Should You Wait Before Adding Someone On Instagram?
28 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared has an awkward hook up after masturbating 700 times. A listener tells the story of watching a gay porn and hearing familiar music, namely the 'U...
How to Plan a Date Without Looking Desperate
21 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jordana and Jared start off talking about the heart DM on Instagram (is it sincere?). Then they take a letter from a compulsive planner who is curious...
Stop Instagram Stalking Your Exes with Whitney Cummings
14 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
After talking about various verbal dealbreakers such as “golly” and “oh my gosh,” Jordana and Jared take a letter from a listener asking how t...
Do Women Have More to Gain From Marriage Than Men?
07 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana talk about how to handle Valentine’s Day as a single person, having reasonable standards, and what men and women have to gain from...
Is It OK to Talk About Your Ex?
01 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jordana and Jared have a fascinating discussion about exes, matchmaking, and being nosy about people's relationships. They take two questions posed by...
How Much Porn is Too Much Porn?
25 Jan 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jordana and Jared discuss micro-cheating and whether or not men and women can really be just friends. They answer questions from a listener ...
If You’re Not On His Instagram It’s Not Official
18 Jan 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jordana and Jared discuss how long you should wait before putting the person you’re dating on social media. They answer questions from a l...
How Many Drinks Should I Have On A Date?
11 Jan 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jared and Jordana discuss if it’s possible to not drink while dating. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know why the guy ...
What’s The Best Way To Dump Someone?
04 Jan 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jordana and Jared discuss why a girl might not have sex with a guy she lets sleep over. They answer questions from a listener who wants to k...
Should You Have ‘The Talk’? The Great Debate
28 Dec 2017
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jared and Jordana discuss why guys like Instagram Models’ photos. They answer questions from a girl who’s anxious she won’t get a New ...
Blowjobs Are a Selfless Act
21 Dec 2017
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jordana and Jared talk about what girls and guys think of oral sex. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know how many times i...
Don’t Text for A Specific Response
14 Dec 2017
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jordana and Jared discuss lingerie and who should text first after a first date. They answer questions from a listener trying to move on fro...
Girls Trying Not To Be Crazy Is What’s Gotten Guys Laid for Centuries
07 Dec 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana discuss who should pay on dates, and what you “owe" someone you’re having sex with in terms of honesty. They answer a listener’...
Is it ever okay to fake an orgasm?
30 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana discuss why girls fake orgasms and what the best solution is to get them to stop. They answer questions from a male listener who doe...
You're Not Better Than The App
23 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Jared and Jordana discuss how to be put yourself out there on dating apps and whether or not a guy can ever truly be 'not in the mood.' The give advic...
Why Does My Boyfriend Rarely Seek Out Sex?
15 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
In their premiere dating podcast, Jared and The Betches discuss how your dating app profile picture can affect what kind of guys or girls you attract ...