Neurodiverse Love with Mona Kay

Changing Our Stories, Regulating Our Nervous System & Slowing Down Conversations-Daniel Dashnaw

12 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

On this episode of the podcast, AANE certified therapist, Daniel Dashnaw, from Couples Therapy, Inc. provides important information about how the stor...

Understanding that "Neurology Matters"-Conversation with Grace Myhill about the AANE Training and Certification

06 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to Episode 1 of Season 4 of the Neurodiverse Love podcast.  During this season, Mona will focus on a series of in-depth conversations wit...

Intro to Season 4 of the Neurodiverse Love podcast

05 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During Season 4 of the Neurodiverse Love podcast Mona is partnering with AANE. She will be interviewing many of the therapists and coaches that have...

The Neurodiverse Love G.P.S. (Gaining Perspective for Success)

04 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Mona is going solo for the last episode of Season 3 to introduce "The Neurodiverse Love Relationship G.P.S. (Gaining Perspective for Success)"; Most o...

Seasons of a Neurodiverse Relationship-How Things Change From Dating to Mid-Life-with Dr. Theresa Regan

30 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dr. Theresa Regan is a neuropsychologist who has extensive experience working with autistic individuals and neurodiverse couples and she has been trai...

Are The Men I'm Meeting "On The Spectrum"?-Sharing Experiences on Dating Apps & Beyond

22 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

On this episode of the podcast, Mona is joined by one of her best friends, Michelle.  They both share some of the experiences they have had with ...

Finding True Love "On the Spectrum", the Second Time Around-Jennifer Cook & Brett Banks

15 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode you will hear a little about the beautiful love story between Jennifer Cook and Brett Banks.  Jennifer Cook was identified as...

Sexual & Physical Intimacy: Understanding Differences & Challenges in Neurodiverse Relationships-Conversation with Clinical Sexologist-Larry Siegel

08 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, Mona and Larry Siegel have an in-depth conversation about ways to better understand and communicate more effectively with your pa...

Life Would Be Different with a Rule Book for Social Cues and Communication-A Conversation with Charles

02 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, Mona talks with Charles, who is a social worker who works in the field of alcohol and substance use.  Charles is 27 years ol...

Collaborative Episode on Neurodiverse Relationship Myth-Busting-with Natalie Roberts & Heather Parks from the Loving Difference On-line Community

27 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Mona joined Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks from the Loving Difference Online Community on their "Myth-busting" podcast to bust some myths we may ha...

Improving Social Communication & Increasing Understanding In Neurodiverse Relationships & Families-Cheryl Rhodes

19 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Cheryl Rhodes has been an LMFT for almost 40 years and has spent many years working with families with autistic children and neurodiverse couples. Dur...

The Neurodiverse Compass & Understanding How We Can Better Navigate Through Time & Space: Jill Corvelli

12 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dr. Jill Corvelli has created "The Corvelli ND Compass", and she talks about how this model guides her work with neurodiverse couples, as well as how ...

A Neurodiverse Family & Marriage-Making Sense of What Was Not Understood-Jen Malia

06 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Jen Malia is an author, professor, autism advocate, wife and mom who received her autism diagnosis on the same day as her daughter.   She wr...

Importance of Strength-Based Communication & Perspective Taking and Addressing Flooding, Co-Dependence, Addictions, & Abuse-Robin Tate-Life Coach

27 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode,  Mona talks with Life Coach-Robin Tate.  Robin shares how important it is for her to continuously compliment the succes...

Reduce Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness & Stonewalling (The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse), and Improve Communication with Certified Gottman Therapist & Master Trainer-Dr. Michael McNulty

20 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This is another fantastic episode for both partners in a Neurodiverse Love relationship to listen to.  After 40 years of research, John and Julie...

Differences in Processing & Communication: Thoughts as Different Color Threads & Being an Involuntary Calculator-Great Conversation with Matthew "The Disaster Autist"

14 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode Matthew shares a little bit about his career in writing and the work he is doing in film and tv.  In addition, he talks about...

Improved Communication, Understanding Sensory Differences During Pregnancy and How Married Life Changed After the Autism Diagnosis-Moshe & Tobi

06 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Moshe and Tobi didn't know that Tobi was autistic when they first met and they couldn't make sense of some of the challenges they were experiencing in...

Using the Gottman Method & Other Strategies to Improve Your Relationship & Understand the Differences That Won't Change: Dr. Kathy McMahon, Founder of Couples Therapy, Inc.

01 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This is another fantastic episode for both partners in a Neurodiverse Love relationship to listen to together.  Dr. K. is a Board Certified Gottm...

SAAIL Project-"Supporting Autistic Adults' Intimate Lives"-Monique Huysamen & Marianthi Kourti

24 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this fantastic episode, Mona has an opportunity to talk to two amazing researchers who are in the UK doing groundbreaking work to better unders...

Candice & Chris-Deep Love Mixed With Misunderstanding & Communication Challenges...Until the Autism Diagnosis-Sharing Tools & Mindset Shifts That Changed Everything!

16 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Candice and Chris have a special, deep love for each other and couldn't understand why they kept having SO many communication challenges and misunders...

Employment, Special Interests & Communicating Your Needs-Collaborative Podcast between "Loving Difference" & "Neurodiverse Love"

11 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Many of us would love to turn our special interests or passion into paid employment, however that isn't always possible.  During this episode, Mo...

Teamwork, Love and Understanding In Neurodiverse Families-Stephanie & Dan Holmes from the Neurodiverse Christian Couples Podcast

03 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This is another fantastic episode that neurodiverse couples may want to listen to together!   Stephanie and Dan Holmes have known each other sinc...

Getting Real About Communication, Boundaries, Physical Intimacy & SO MUCH MORE with the authors of "The Autism Relationship Handbook & Workbook"-Joe Biel & Faith Harper

03 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If you haven't read "The Autism Relationship Handbook and The Autism Relationship Workbook by Joe Biel and Dr. Faith Harper" you will definitely want ...

Are You Parenting Your Partner in Your Neurodiverse Love Relationship?

19 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode Mona and Manecia talk about a topic that may be difficult for both the autistic and non-autistic partners to hear, but is importan...

The Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards-Understand, Value and Appreciate Each Others Strengths and Differences, One Question At A Time

13 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this short bonus episode of the podcast, Mona shares “WHY” she created the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards, “HOW” they can be us...

Eva A. Mendes-Author of-Marriage and Lasting Relationships with AS/ASD-Successful Strategies for Couples or Counselors

12 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Eva is a psychotherapist, an ASD specialist and the author of several books, including "Marriage and Lasting Relationships with Asperger's Syndrome (A...

Alix & Roy-Misdiagnosis, Trauma, Understanding, Love and Compassion-A Neurodiverse Journey

11 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, Alix and Roy share so many of the lessons they have learned together since their friendship began in 2008.  After building a...

Addressing the Triggers in Our Neurodiverse Love Relationships

11 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our triggers provide opportunities for us to heal and grow or they continue to create situations that we react to, rather then respond to.  Unfor...

Sharing What Makes Their Neurodiverse Love Relationship Thrive-Sira & Marcel

21 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Sira Busch received her formal autistic diagnosis a year ago and during this podcast episode she and her partner Marcel share their lived experience b...

Paul Micallef from "Asperger's from the Inside"- Emotional Intelligence & Letting Go of Unconscious Expectations in Your Neurodiverse Love Relationship

14 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Do you wonder why your partner doesn't understand your needs?  Do you have challenges communicating your boundaries effectively in your Neurodive...

Stephanie Bethany-Understanding Each Other's Perspective, Processing and Emotions & Being Able to "De-Code" for Each Other

08 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When Stephanie Bethany married her husband at 19 she didn't know she was autistic, however when she was diagnosed at 23, things began to make more sen...

Dan Jones of "The Aspie World"-Thriving in Life and His Neurodiverse Relationship

02 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It was a pleasure to talk with Dan Jones, the creator of The Aspie World about how he is thriving in life and in his Neurodiverse Love relationship. W...

Recognizing the Differences in Your Relationship & Getting Real About Your Feelings-Collaborative Podcast with "Neurodiverse Love" & "Loving Difference"

25 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This is the first collaborative podcast between members of the "Neurodiverse Love" team and the "Loving Difference" team.  We will be doing colla...

Understanding Perspectives, Paradigm Shifts, & Social Quotas-Leslie Sickels, LCSW

23 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, Leslie Sickels, LCSW shares so many important strategies for creating a strength based, successful "Neurodiverse Love" relationsh...

Dr. Valerie Gaus-Strategies and Tools to Make "Any" Love Relationship Successful

23 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dr. Valerie Gaus is a clinical psychologist whose focus is on treating mental health issues in adults with autism spectrum disorder, including depress...

Professor Tony Attwood & Dr. Michelle Garnett: Keys to Successful Neurodiverse Relationships

19 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, two of the most well-known experts in autism and neurodiverse relationships, Professor Tony Attwood and Dr. Michelle Garnett, sha...

Relationship Renewal-How to Create “Values” Based Plans & Strategies to Thrive- Dr. Thomas Lucking

14 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dr. Thomas Lucking, Ph.D., LMFT, started his career in technology and then chose to pivot and become a therapist. Having these two areas of expertis...

Happy, Positive & Confident Sex for Adults on the Autism Spectrum & Beyond-Michael John Carley

12 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Michael John Carley has spent many years as an advocate, educator and collaborator. He is the author of several books and he joined us on the podcas...

Healing Cassandra Podcast Host, Margot-Found Her Voice After 20+ Years of Marriage & Began Healing

05 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When Margot Alexis found out that she was in a "Neurodiverse Love" marriage she began to focus on the only person she could change..."herself". In thi...

Grace Myhill-Director of the Neurodiverse Couples Institute & Partners and Couples Services at AANE

29 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode Grace Myhill, MSW shares her extensive experience on ways in which neurodiverse couples can gain better understanding of each othe...

Jodi Carlton-Helping to "Crack the Communication Code" as a Neurodiverse Couples Coach

22 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Jodi Carlton, M.Ed. is an internationally recognized autism relationship and neurodiversity expert and coach.  During this episode she shared her...

Strategies to Reset Your Neurodiverse Relationship and Thrive with Dr. Harry Motro from the Neurodiverse Couples Counseling Center

15 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dr. Harry Motro spent the earlier part of his career in technology and then chose a second career in counseling.  HIs passion to take the best to...

How Boundaries and the" Four Agreements" Can Improve Life in a Neurodiverse Relationship

08 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Year to all our listeners!  This episode provides a lot of food for thought and great information that can help you make improvements i...

Mona's 32 Year Journey Through Love, Confusion, Loneliness, Anger, Separation and Divorce. Then Moving to Healing, Growth and Thriving.

01 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Manecia interviews Mona as she shares about some of the experiences she had when she did not know she was in a neurodiverse marriage....

Alina Kislenko-Changing Therapeutic Models & Creating Paradigm Shifts in Neurodiverse Couples Counseling

25 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Psychotherapist and Professor Alina Kislenko is redesigning therapeutic models for neurodivergent individuals and neurodiverse couples. She is commi...

The Social Autie-Carole Jean Whittington-Lessons Learned on Her Neurodistinct Journey

18 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We learned SO much during this episode with Carole Jean Whittington who is "The Social Autie' on social media.  Carole Jean received an ADHD diag...

Joe (a Therapist) & Mike (an engineer)-Their 29 Year Journey of Love & Learning

11 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Joe is a therapist and Mike is an engineer and in many ways they might be considered opposites. However, during this episode they share how during t...

Michelle & Andrew-Inspirational Neurodiverse Couple, New Parents, TIkTok Stars and Soon-to-Be Published Authors

04 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Mona and Manecia had such a wonderful time talking to Michelle and Andrew learning about their "Neurodiverse Love" journey.  After they met on a ...

Understanding the Misinterpretations and Unintentional Hurt, Pain and Trauma Both Partners Can Cause

26 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, Mona and Manecia talk openly and honestly about some of the unintentional hurt and pain that they have both caused in their relat...

Internal Family Systems & How Our "Parts" Impact Our Relationships with Dr. Kim Bolling

20 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Join us for this fantastic episode where we have an opportunity to talk with Dr. Kim Bolling.  Kim is a couples therapist and provides counseling...

How an ASD Diagnosis Began to Transform Their 24 Year Marriage

13 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Alina and her husband have been married for 24 years and have 5 sons. Throughout their marriage, they have experienced lots of challenges that other c...

Filling the Void & Feeding Our Needs...Food Addiction & Other Addictions

06 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We are issuing a "trigger warning" for this episode, as we are talking about food addictions and other addictions that some of our listeners may be de...

When Your Man is On the Spectrum-To Know, Understand and Transform Your Relationship-Author & Neurodiverse Couples Coach-Dr. Pnina Arad-

30 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

For her doctoral dissertation, Dr. Pnina Arad conducted ground-breaking research with women in neurodiverse relationships and published her book, "Whe...

Loving Difference-On-line Community for Learning How to Thrive in Life & a Neurodiverse Relationship-Coaches and Co-founders: Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks

23 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode you will hear from two of the four co-founders and coaches in the "Loving Difference" on-line community.  This site was creat...

What to Say Next--Successful Communication in Work, Life, and Love with Autism Spectrum Disorder-Meet the Authors of this Book-- Sarah & Larry Nannery who are a Very Inspirational Neurodiverse Couple

16 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, Sarah and Larry Nannery share the lessons they have learned during their 10 year Neurodiverse Love relationship. Their motto is "...

The Value of an ASD Diagnosis & the Impact of Knowing on Our Love Relationships

09 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode we talk about whether it's important to have a formal ASD diagnosis to understand the best ways to create a successful relationshi...

Mona and Olga Share Some Lessons Learned & Celebrate 1 Year Anniversary of "Neurodiverse Love" Podcast

03 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

To celebrate the one year anniversary of the Neurodiverse Love podcast, Mona and Olga are co-hosting this special episode to talk about some of the im...

Learning Better Communication Strategies for Neurodiverse Couples-Dr. Ali Arena

25 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode, Mona and Manecia have the pleasure of talking with communication expert, Dr. Ali Arena.  Ali has been working for years with...

Neurodiverse Couples Coach, Minister, Wife and Mother in a Neurodiverse Marriage-Janelle Harding

18 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is filled with pearls of wisdom and lots of laughter as Mona and Manecia welcome Janelle Harding to the "Neurodiverse Love" podcast. Jane...

Discovering ASD After 20 Years of Marriage & 4 Children-Listen to Heidi's Story

11 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode Mona and Manecia have an in-depth conversation with Heidi who has been married for over 25 years and found out 5 years ago that he...

Ashley Grubbs-Counselor & Coach for Neurodivergent Couples & Partner in a Neurodivergent Marriage

04 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Ashley is a licensed counselor and a coach who has worked with many neurodivergent couples.  She focuses on the strengths of each partner to addr...

Thinking and Processing Differences-Understanding Executive Function

04 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to Season 2 of the Neurodiverse Love podcast. In this episode we talk about the challenges that can occur when you and your partner think and ...

How Important is Socializing and Why Do We Do It So Differently?

29 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

During this episode we talk about how challenging it can be when socializing, friendships and travel have different value to us and impact us differen...

Season 2-Neurodiverse Love podcast is on a new account-"Please subscribe again"

19 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The first season of the "Neurodiverse Love" podcast includes 30 episodes of our lived experiences and lessons learned in "Neurodiverse Love" relations...